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When is arguing bad in a relationship?Every couple fights. Differences of opinion are healthy, and they can lead to productive changes that make both parties happier in the end. That’s pretty standard for marriages everywhere—but psychologists suggest that it’s how you fight that determines whether you grow old together or end up in front of a Barrie divorce lawyer.

You Say Potato, I Say Potato: Either Way, We’re Happy

Common disagreements can usually be resolved through discussion, like whether you’ll have chicken or pizza for dinner, and that’s perfectly normal in a marriage. There’s plenty of give-and-take in healthy relationships.

Most psychologists agree that arguing (even frequent arguing) is good for relationships as long as couples know how to fight and how to make up afterward.

Couples who avoid criticizing each other, name-calling and personal attacks tend to have healthier relationships than those who engage in those potentially destructive behaviours. Accepting the truth, even if it hurts, is also part of healthy disagreement.

And, of course, the part where you kiss and make up is the best part of a healthy argument.

When Is Arguing Bad in a Relationship?

Unhealthy relationships, on the other hand, don’t have productive outcomes after disagreements. These unproductive arguments carry over through divorce, and couples who don’t know how to work together toward a common goal often end up battling over division of assets, child custody and more. In some cases, couples like these can benefit from mediation; however, it often takes some encouragement from a Barrie divorce lawyer to get there.

Turning Things Around

Some couples are able to turn the tides in the most turbulent relationships. Others can’t get past the damage that’s already been done. Your Barrie divorce lawyer will probably want to know about your relationship, including how often you fought and whether you’re usually able to agree with each other, in order to determine the best course of action for your future.



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