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Published: September 25, 2017

Last Updated: April 16, 2026

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The Matrimonial Home

Family Lawyers Advising on the Matrimonial Home

For most couples, the matrimonial home represents the largest asset they jointly own, and has deep emotional resonance as the place where a marriage began, the place where children have grown up, and the place where memories are collected. Unsurprisingly, the matrimonial home and what becomes of it after a separation or divorce often become a point of contention, even for couples whose separation is otherwise amicable.

At Gelman & Associates, our knowledgeable family lawyers have decades of collective experience advising clients on division of property issues, including proactively and strategically guiding clients on what to do with the matrimonial home. We advocate for the optimal outcome for our clients, and are not afraid to get tough when needed.

How is the Matrimonial Home defined?

Section 18(1) of the Family Law Act defines a matrimonial home as any property in which either spouse has an interest and which is currently, or was at the time of separation, “ordinarily occupied by the person and his or her spouse as their family residence.”

Under the definition of “matrimonial home” in the Family Law Act, more than one home can be considered the matrimonial home, provided it was regularly being used by both spouses at the time of separation.  For example, if both spouses spent every weekend at the cottage together, it could be considered the matrimonial home.  Conversely, if the couple owned a condo that was almost exclusively used by one spouse only, it would likely not be considered part of the matrimonial home.

Can my spouse “kick me out” (or vice versa)?

Everyone has heard the horror stories about a spouse coming home one day to find all their things on the front lawn and the locks on the doors changed.  This is not an approach any separating couple should contemplate, nor is it a legally reasonable or permissible approach for a spouse to take.  Barring a court order or agreement between the parties, both parties have a right to equal possession of the matrimonial home; even if the home is only in one spouse’s name.

Matrimonial Myths Matrimonial Facts
  • If the house or other assets are held in the sole name of one party, they do not form part of the matrimonial pot.
  • A fair division of the assets is achieved by a standard calculation.
  • All claims will not be lost if the matrimonial home is vacated.
  • Divorce automatically means financial freedom from your ex-spouse.
  • Rights of cohabitees on relationship breakdown are very limited and different from those rights of married couples.
  • All assets are assumed to form part of the matrimonial pot unless the court decides otherwise or this is agreed by the other party.
  • Leaving the matrimonial home has no impact on your ability to make financial claims.
  • You may be subject to claims made by them in respect of income, pension and capital.

How does the Matrimonial Home affect custody issues?

If there is an anticipated custody battle, a spouse should think twice before leaving the matrimonial home.  When considering custody, the courts will always act in the best interest of the child.  In many cases, it will be considered least disruptive (and therefore most beneficial) for children to remain in the matrimonial home.  In such cases, leaving the home may weaken the argument for custody of the children.  Unless a separation agreement is in place and custody issues have been settled, it is advisable to remain in the matrimonial home if custody of your children is desired.

Experienced Divorce Lawyers Representing Clients with Contentious Matrimonial Home Issues in Aurora, Barrie, Downtown Toronto, Mississauga, North York and Scarborough.

In addition to being a significant asset, the matrimonial home is usually associated with deep emotional ties.  At Gelman & Associates, we will provide compassionate, forward-thinking guidance to our clients while aggressively pursuing their legal interests. Call us at (844) 736-0200 or contact us online.

 

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Frequently Asked Questions

If the divorce proceeding is already happening and you do not have a prenuptial, post nuptial, or any other agreement with your spouse outside the divorce proceeding that shields your business from the effects of the divorce, chances are your business may have already been listed as part of the marital or family assets that will be subjected to distribution between you and your spouse.

It is advisable to consult your lawyer or let your lawyer represent or negotiate on your behalf about that matter instead of doing it by yourself.

Arbitrary dissolution or cessation of the business during the divorce process may be construed by your spouse, the mediator, or the judge, as bad faith on your part which may negatively impact the outcome of the distribution of assets in your divorce.

Future inheritances are not taken into account when dealing with the financial aspects of a divorce, but if it is expected that the person making the bequest will die in the near future, and if the inheritance is likely to be substantial, it may be.

You can only sell the matrimonial home with the consent of both spouses.

Under Ontario Law, marriage is considered an equal partnership and it follows that when a marriage comes to an end, the law requires an equal division of the property. The general rule is when a marriage ends, the value of all property acquired during your marriage and maintained through the separation should be divided between equally between the parties.

New rules for pension division upon the breakdown of spousal relationships came into force in Ontario as a result of amendments to the Ontario Family Law Act and Pension Benefits Act. Pursuant to the Family Law Act, the imputed value of married spouses’ pension assets constitutes property. Married spouses who decide to end their marriage are legally entitled to an equalization of pension assets and other property that they have amassed together during the marriage. If you are contemplating separation or divorce in Ontario, it is critical to receive legal advice about the division of pension assets in order to ensure you understand and protect your rights.

The new rules in Ontario for pension division apply to all spouses whose relationship has broken down, unless a court order, family arbitration award or domestic contract provides otherwise. Under this new regime, pension plan members and their spouses may apply to the plan’s administrator for a statement of the imputed value of each spouse’s pension benefits, deferred pension or pension. The pension administrator will first calculate the total value of the pension up to the family law valuation date. The administrator will then calculate what portion of the preliminary value of a pension is attributable to the period of the marriage, i.e. the imputed value of a spouse’s interest in a pension plan.

Once the value of pension is calculated, the value will be included in the pension holder’s net family property, along with his/her other assets, for the purpose of calculating the equalization payment. After the equalization payment is calculated, up to 50% of the value of the pension may be transferred from one spouse to another in order to satisfy the equalization payment in whole or in part.

Contact Gelman & Associates to learn how experienced, forward-thinking, family law lawyers can ensure your pension entitlements are protected during separation or divorce. Call us at (844) 736-0200 or contact us online for a confidential initial consultation.

There are many ways for you to keep your inheritance separate from your spouse, such as saving all proof, like photos and records, that show that the estate was intended for you alone.

It is illegal to hide money or assets from your spouse in the case of a divorce.

The best way to protect your business during a divorce is to designate it as separate property in a prenuptial agreement. Your pre-nuptial agreement will serve as a protection because it ensures that your business is still a separate entity no matter how much your spouse contributes.

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