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Published: September 25, 2017

Last Updated: September 17, 2026

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The Matrimonial Home

Family Lawyers Advising On The Matrimonial Home

For many separating spouses, the matrimonial home is both one of their largest financial assets and one of the most difficult issues to resolve.

Questions can arise about who stays in the home, whether one spouse can require the other to leave, whether the property should be sold, whether one spouse can buy out the other’s interest, and how a home owned before marriage is treated when the relationship ends.

Ontario gives the matrimonial home special treatment under the Family Law Act. Those rules can affect both possession of the property during separation and how its value is considered when married spouses divide their property.

At Gelman & Associates, our Toronto matrimonial home lawyers advise clients about:

  • Exclusive possession of the matrimonial home
  • Sale of the family home
  • Buying out a spouse’s interest
  • Homes owned before marriage
  • Second marriages and blended families
  • Inherited property that becomes a matrimonial home
  • Property equalization
  • Parenting and housing issues after separation

To discuss your circumstances, call 1-844-736-0200 or contact Gelman & Associates.

What Is A Matrimonial Home In Ontario?

Section 18 of Ontario’s Family Law Act defines a matrimonial home as property in which one or both spouses have an interest, and that was ordinarily occupied by the spouses as their family residence.

Importantly, ownership alone does not determine whether property is a matrimonial home.

A house can qualify even where:

  • Only one spouse is on title
  • One spouse purchased the property before marriage
  • One spouse inherited or received the property
  • The spouses have more than one qualifying family residence

Ontario law can recognize more than one matrimonial home. For example, a cottage may potentially qualify if the spouses ordinarily occupied it together as a family residence.

The definition applies specifically within the legal framework for married spouses. Common-law partners do not receive all of the same matrimonial-home rights simply because they live together.

For broader property issues involving marriage or common-law relationships, see our Toronto property division lawyers.

Do Both Spouses Have A Right To Stay In The Matrimonial Home?

Yes, while the applicable matrimonial-home rights remain in place, Ontario law gives both married spouses an equal right to possession of the matrimonial home.

That can apply even where only one spouse owns the property.

Section 19 of the Family Law Act expressly provides that both spouses have an equal right to possession of a matrimonial home.

This means one spouse generally cannot simply change the locks, remove the other spouse’s belongings, or declare that the other person must leave because their name is not on title.

Different rules may apply if the spouses reach an agreement or a court makes an order granting one spouse exclusive possession.

What Is Exclusive Possession Of The Matrimonial Home?

Exclusive possession is a court order that allows one spouse to occupy the matrimonial home to the exclusion of the other spouse for a period of time.

Under section 24 of Ontario’s Family Law Act, a court can grant exclusive possession regardless of who owns the home.

This can be particularly important where spouses are unable to safely or practically continue living under the same roof.

When deciding whether to grant exclusive possession, the court can consider factors prescribed by the legislation, including matters involving the children, the spouses’ financial circumstances, available alternative accommodation, and violence committed by one spouse against the other spouse or the children.

Exclusive possession deals with who may live in the home, not who ultimately owns it.

An order requiring one spouse to leave does not automatically transfer title or determine how the home’s value will ultimately be divided.

Can I Get Exclusive Possession If My Spouse Owns The House?

Potentially, yes.

The Family Law Act specifically allows the court to make an exclusive possession order regardless of ownership.

That means a spouse whose name is not on title may still be permitted to remain in the home while the titled spouse is required to leave, depending on the circumstances.

Clients dealing with violence or immediate safety concerns should also review the resources available from our Toronto domestic violence lawyers.

Can One Spouse Sell The Matrimonial Home Without The Other?

Not ordinarily. Ontario places specific restrictions on disposing of or encumbering a matrimonial home.

Section 21 of the Family Law Act generally prevents a spouse from selling or mortgaging their interest in a matrimonial home unless the other spouse consents, releases their rights through an appropriate agreement, or a court order authorizes the transaction.

This protection can apply even where only one spouse is the registered owner.

A spouse should therefore obtain legal advice before attempting to sell, refinance, transfer, or otherwise deal with a matrimonial home during separation.

What Happens To The Matrimonial Home After Separation?

There are several possible outcomes.

The Home Is Sold

The spouses may agree to sell the home and address the sale proceeds as part of their broader property settlement.

This may be the most practical solution where neither spouse can afford to maintain or refinance the property alone.

One Spouse Buys Out The Other

One spouse may want to keep the home and compensate the other spouse for their interest as part of an overall property settlement.

A buyout can require consideration of:

  • The property’s fair market value
  • The outstanding mortgage
  • Other secured debt
  • Equalization calculations
  • Refinancing
  • The spouse’s ability to qualify for financing
  • Transaction costs
  • Other assets or debts exchanged as part of settlement

A buyout is not simply a matter of dividing the home’s market value in half. The broader equalization of family property may also need to be calculated.

The Spouses Temporarily Continue To Own The Home Together

In some cases, spouses agree to delay the sale or transfer.

For example, they may want children to remain in the home temporarily or may need time to refinance.

Any arrangement involving continued joint ownership should clearly address expenses, mortgage payments, repairs, insurance, use of the home, and how and when the property will eventually be sold or transferred.

The Court Becomes Involved

Where jointly interested owners cannot agree on the future of property, court proceedings may sometimes become necessary.

Ontario’s Partition Act provides mechanisms through which parties with interests in land can seek partition or sale in appropriate circumstances.

How that legislation interacts with ongoing family-law claims can be legally complex, so spouses should obtain advice before seeking or resisting a forced sale.

Can I Buy My Spouse Out Of The Matrimonial Home?

Potentially, yes.

A buyout generally means that one spouse keeps the property and the other spouse transfers their ownership interest in exchange for agreed compensation.

The process may involve:

  1. Determining the home’s current value
  2. Confirming the mortgage and other secured liabilities
  3. Calculating the spouses’ broader property entitlements
  4. Determining the amount required for the buyout
  5. Confirming that the spouse keeping the property can refinance
  6. Preparing the necessary settlement and transfer documents

A real estate appraisal may be helpful where the spouses disagree about value.

The amount paid in a buyout can also interact with other assets, debts, pensions, and equalization obligations, so it is useful to examine the house as part of the complete property settlement rather than in isolation.

What If I Owned The House Before We Got Married?

This is one of the most important special rules concerning the matrimonial home.

Ordinarily, Ontario’s net family property calculation allows a married spouse to deduct the value of certain property they owned on the date of marriage.

The matrimonial home is an important exception.

The statutory definition of net family property excludes a date-of-marriage deduction for property that is a matrimonial home at separation.

Ontario’s public guidance similarly explains that the full value of the family home may be included in property sharing even where one spouse owned it before the marriage.

For example, if one spouse owned a home before marriage and the spouses later ordinarily occupied that same property as their family residence until separation, the usual treatment of pre-marriage property may not apply to that home.

This can produce a very different result from another investment property owned before marriage that never became a matrimonial home.

Because the financial consequences can be significant, anyone bringing a previously owned home into a marriage should consider family-law advice before marriage or separation.

What If I Inherited The Matrimonial Home?

Inherited property can receive special treatment under Ontario’s property laws, but the matrimonial home is again a major exception.

The Family Law Act’s excluded-property rules specifically distinguish a matrimonial home from other property acquired by gift or inheritance.

Ontario also explains that spouses may have to share the full value of the family home even where one spouse received it as a gift or inheritance.

Someone who receives a home through an inheritance and later uses it as the matrimonial home should therefore not assume that it will receive the same treatment as other inherited assets.

For related planning and property questions, visit our Toronto inheritance lawyers.

The Matrimonial Home In A Second Marriage

Matrimonial-home issues can be particularly important in a second marriage.

One spouse may enter the relationship owning a home accumulated over many years and may intend for that property’s value eventually to benefit children from a previous relationship.

If the spouses marry and ordinarily occupy that property as their family residence, Ontario’s matrimonial-home rules can create consequences that differ significantly from those applying to other pre-marriage assets.

Questions can include:

  • Whether the previously owned home becomes the matrimonial home
  • Whether a date-of-marriage deduction remains available
  • How the home fits into an overall equalization calculation
  • What happens if children from a previous relationship are intended to inherit the property
  • Whether a marriage contract or prenuptial agreement should address the property
  • How family-law arrangements should coordinate with wills and estate plans

People entering a second marriage with substantial real estate should consider obtaining advice before the wedding rather than assuming that existing ownership alone will preserve the property’s value.

Can A Marriage Contract Protect A Matrimonial Home?

A marriage contract can address many property issues, but Ontario law places limits on agreements concerning the matrimonial home.

Section 52 of the Family Law Act prevents a marriage contract from limiting a spouse’s statutory rights to possession of the matrimonial home under Part II of the Act.

That means couples should obtain specific advice about what a prenuptial agreement can and cannot accomplish in relation to a family residence.

Marriage contracts may still be highly relevant to broader financial rights and property division.

Does Leaving The Matrimonial Home Mean I Give Up My Share?

Leaving the home does not automatically mean surrendering your ownership interest or property claims.

However, moving out can have practical consequences, particularly where parenting arrangements, possession of the property, ongoing expenses, or access to personal belongings are still unresolved.

Before moving out, it may be useful to obtain advice about:

  • Parenting arrangements
  • Mortgage payments
  • Utilities and household expenses
  • Access to belongings
  • Insurance
  • Property preservation
  • Exclusive possession
  • Plans for sale or buyout

If there is an immediate safety concern, personal safety should take priority over property strategy.

Does The Matrimonial Home Affect Parenting Arrangements?

The fact that children have been living in a particular home can be relevant to practical parenting arrangements, but the modern legal analysis focuses on the best interests of the child, not on a presumption that whichever parent remains in the house automatically receives custody.

Ontario now generally uses the terms decision-making responsibility and parenting time rather than custody and access.

A court may consider stability and the child’s living arrangements as part of the complete best-interests analysis.

Parents dealing with these issues should speak with our Toronto child custody lawyers rather than assuming that leaving or remaining in the home will determine the parenting outcome.

Frequently Asked Questions About The Matrimonial Home

Can My Spouse Change The Locks On The Matrimonial Home?

Generally, one spouse should not unilaterally exclude the other from a matrimonial home where both continue to have a legal right of possession.

A separation agreement or exclusive possession order may change those rights.

Can There Be More Than One Matrimonial Home?

Yes. More than one property can potentially qualify if it meets the statutory definition. A regularly used family cottage, for example, may qualify depending on the facts.

Does It Matter Whose Name Is On Title?

Title is important for ownership, but it does not by itself determine matrimonial-home possession rights.

Ontario gives both spouses equal possession rights in a matrimonial home while those statutory rights apply.

Can My Spouse Force Me To Sell The House?

Whether a sale can be required depends on ownership, the parties’ property claims, existing agreements or orders, and the legal relief being sought.

Where co-owners cannot agree, legal proceedings concerning sale may be available, but matrimonial-home rights and other family-law issues can affect the analysis.

What Happens To The Mortgage During Separation?

Separation does not automatically change the obligations owed to a mortgage lender.

How the spouses divide responsibility between themselves may be addressed through negotiation, a separation agreement, or court proceedings, but the lender’s contractual rights should also be considered.

Is A Matrimonial Home Split 50/50?

The matrimonial home’s value is relevant to Ontario’s broader equalization regime, but the legal calculation is not simply a mechanical division of the house itself.

Each spouse’s complete net family property is generally calculated before determining whether an equalization payment is owed.

Speak With A Toronto Matrimonial Home Lawyer Today

The family home can raise questions about possession, ownership, sale, refinancing, equalization, parenting, and long-term financial planning at the same time.

Our Toronto matrimonial home lawyers can help you understand:

  • Whether property qualifies as a matrimonial home
  • Your right to remain in the home
  • Exclusive possession
  • Sale or buyout options
  • Homes owned before marriage
  • Inherited homes
  • Second marriages
  • Property equalization
  • Parenting-related housing issues

To discuss your circumstances with Gelman & Associates, call 1-844-736-0200 or contact us online.

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Frequently Asked Questions

If the divorce proceeding is already happening and you do not have a prenuptial, post nuptial, or any other agreement with your spouse outside the divorce proceeding that shields your business from the effects of the divorce, chances are your business may have already been listed as part of the marital or family assets that will be subjected to distribution between you and your spouse.

It is advisable to consult your lawyer or let your lawyer represent or negotiate on your behalf about that matter instead of doing it by yourself.

Arbitrary dissolution or cessation of the business during the divorce process may be construed by your spouse, the mediator, or the judge, as bad faith on your part which may negatively impact the outcome of the distribution of assets in your divorce.

Future inheritances are not taken into account when dealing with the financial aspects of a divorce, but if it is expected that the person making the bequest will die in the near future, and if the inheritance is likely to be substantial, it may be.

You can only sell the matrimonial home with the consent of both spouses.

Under Ontario Law, marriage is considered an equal partnership and it follows that when a marriage comes to an end, the law requires an equal division of the property. The general rule is when a marriage ends, the value of all property acquired during your marriage and maintained through the separation should be divided between equally between the parties.

New rules for pension division upon the breakdown of spousal relationships came into force in Ontario as a result of amendments to the Ontario Family Law Act and Pension Benefits Act. Pursuant to the Family Law Act, the imputed value of married spouses’ pension assets constitutes property. Married spouses who decide to end their marriage are legally entitled to an equalization of pension assets and other property that they have amassed together during the marriage. If you are contemplating separation or divorce in Ontario, it is critical to receive legal advice about the division of pension assets in order to ensure you understand and protect your rights.

The new rules in Ontario for pension division apply to all spouses whose relationship has broken down, unless a court order, family arbitration award or domestic contract provides otherwise. Under this new regime, pension plan members and their spouses may apply to the plan’s administrator for a statement of the imputed value of each spouse’s pension benefits, deferred pension or pension. The pension administrator will first calculate the total value of the pension up to the family law valuation date. The administrator will then calculate what portion of the preliminary value of a pension is attributable to the period of the marriage, i.e. the imputed value of a spouse’s interest in a pension plan.

Once the value of pension is calculated, the value will be included in the pension holder’s net family property, along with his/her other assets, for the purpose of calculating the equalization payment. After the equalization payment is calculated, up to 50% of the value of the pension may be transferred from one spouse to another in order to satisfy the equalization payment in whole or in part.

Contact Gelman & Associates to learn how experienced, forward-thinking, family law lawyers can ensure your pension entitlements are protected during separation or divorce. Call us at (844) 736-0200 or contact us online for a confidential initial consultation.

There are many ways for you to keep your inheritance separate from your spouse, such as saving all proof, like photos and records, that show that the estate was intended for you alone.

It is illegal to hide money or assets from your spouse in the case of a divorce.

The best way to protect your business during a divorce is to designate it as separate property in a prenuptial agreement. Your pre-nuptial agreement will serve as a protection because it ensures that your business is still a separate entity no matter how much your spouse contributes.

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