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Since many parents are divorced or unmarried today, it is becoming more common for fathers to be involved in child-rearing and family planning. When a relationship ends and separation follows, the priority is always the stability and safety of any children involved.

Some may believe that a father will never get custody of his child. In fact, a male partner may not fight against a ruling or before one is issued since he believes he has no legal rights. Since most fathers are unaware of their rights, it is imperative that the father is entirely aware of what rights he has in these circumstances if there is a legal complication.

Fathers’ Rights Overview

After the separation, fathers often struggle in attempting to gain equal parenting rights. In worst cases, the father is barred from seeing their child. This is wrong since fathers have the right to be a part of their children’s lives in a meaningful way and on a regular basis.

Fathers’ rights also include parenting time with his children, the right to be consulted before adoption, and the right to time off from work to raise his child. Here is a list of the rights that a father has:

  • Visitation Rights for Unmarried Fathers
  • Child Support Reform
  • Father’s Rights to School and Medical Records
  • Father’s Rights to Adoption
  • Fathers’ Rights Before Birth
  • Fathers’ Rights and Abortion
  • Father’s Rights and Access
  • Father’s Rights and Custody

In reality, there’s really no such thing as the “rights of a father” or the “rights of the mother.” Both parties have the same rights. In a custody battle, the parent who will be given custody is determined by the child’s best interest. The court shall be granted custody of the children after the separation or dissolution of a marriage.

Recognizing Unmarried Fathers’ Rights Recognizing Married Fathers’ Rights
  • Child custody is not awarded to the father until paternity is verified.
  • To get custody, the unwed father should establish the paternity of the child.
  • If you have proven your paternity, the court will grant you the privilege of raising your bloodline.
  • Parenting time with his children
  • The right to be consulted before the adoption
  • The right to time off from work to raise his child

Child Custody Factors

Child custody is based on several factors, including the best interest of the child. Parenthood may be more suited to one parent than the other. If this is the case, the court may need to step in and decide on the best custody and visitation arrangements. A father will need to provide evidence to satisfy the court regarding your involvement in the child’s life.

Some examples of evidence a father needs to have so that he can prove that he is capable of raising the child include:

  • Witnesses
  • Journals
  • Emails and text message
  • Photographs, videos, audio recordings,
  • School reports
  • Insurance or medical bills

Tips on Winning Father’s Rights

The judge usually gives the responsibility of being the custodial parent to the mother since the men are yelling more than the women and remain hot-tempered. However, as a father, you will certainly want to keep your child with you most of the time.

Whenever a father is going into court for a custody battle, it is best to remember these valuable tips to win custody of a child:

  • You should always act smartly rather than blaming your partner. Doing so will indicate that you are a very rude parent, and your child may learn all this from you.
  • Avoid getting involved in a conflict. Rather than escalating the conflict, try to resolve it.
  • Instead of focusing on your partner or spouse, put your attention on your child. If your spouse makes a false claim against you, you will lose the chance to obtain your child.
  • Don’t make trouble for your child’s mother. If you want to make any decision for your child, you will need to communicate with her. It is also possible that you will get the chance to be in a co-parenting relationship.
  • Make contact with the childcare and parenting classes that are available at each of the centers. Be aware of it for the sake of getting custody of your child, and not just to know about it. Learn it so that you can raise your child correctly and become a good father. Help your child with assignments, homework,  and other projects.

As much as possible, a father should try to avoid these common mistakes:

  • Moving out of the home where the children live
  • Living in a messy house or a studio apartment
  • Not holding down a steady job
  • Not fighting against trumped-up order of protection charges started by the mother.

Important Legal Terms about Father’s Rights

Legal Term Definition
Guardianship Guardianship is a court-ordered relationship where an adult is appointed by the court to care for a minor child (“ward”) whose circumstances require it and decide about the child’s education, support, and maintenance.
Father’s Rights and Access Access is the legal term for the right of the child and parent to spend time together. Although they may not have a role in making decisions, a parent with access has the right to receive information about the child’s education, health, and well-being.
Father’s Rights and Custody Custody is the legal term for the right of a father to take care of a child and make decisions about the child’s education, support, and maintenance.
Child’s Best Interest In the context of child custody cases, focusing on the child’s “best interests” means that all custody and visitation discussions and decisions are made with the ultimate goal of fostering and encouraging the child’s happiness, security, mental health, and emotional development into young adulthood.

We understand that you want what is best for your children. Don’t wait to assert your rights as a father. Call our experienced family lawyers at Gelman & Associates today to know more about father’s rights.

Pro Tip

To win custody of your child, don’t argue with the mother of your child. Instead, be more sensible and kind. Know that you might end up having a codependent relationship with her during the separation.

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How Can a Family Lawyer Help in This Situation

Still thinking about how a lawyer can help in a custody battle? Here are some reasons why you need one:

  • Family lawyers deal with issues related to child custody, child support, spousal support, and all other matters related to a family.
  • Family lawyers will gather all the necessary information like your high gross income, a good standard of living, and others to prove that you would be the best parent to give your child the best future.
  • In some cases, fathers’ visitation rights can be very complex and require the help of a skilled family lawyer with fathers’ rights expertise, who can inform you of your rights and help you fight for your rights as a father.

Get In Touch With Experienced Family Lawyers from Gelman & Associates

Dealing with separation, divorce, or child custody and access can be some of the most stressful events of a person’s life. At Gelman & Associates, we strive to make this experience easier by empowering our clients to make informed decisions.

Our lawyers guide our clients through Ontario’s family law system with compassion and understanding while still aggressively protecting their rights. With offices throughout North York, downtown Toronto, Mississauga, Scarborough, Aurora, and Barrie, we are just a short distance away in any direction.

Contact Gelman & Associates today to meet one of our experienced family law lawyers. The latter will work on your behalf to achieve the best possible resolution to your family law matter. Call us at (844) 736-0200 or (844) 736-0200 or contact us online for an initial consultation.

Frequently Asked Questions

It is not uncommon for someone to want to relocate after a divorce. If you still live in the marital residence, the familiar surroundings and memories may be too much for your heart to handle. Or in the process of reinventing yourself post-divorce you may want to take a new job, move closer to your friends and family, or simply wish to start fresh somewhere new. There are many reasons a person may want to move after going through a divorce, however if you have children you will need to think twice before making a big move.

Emotionally, it can be challenging for a child to move to an unfamiliar place. Often, they are most at ease in a familiar environment with access to family and friends. Changing schools, living in a new city or even a new house can be difficult on a child, especially after dealing with the emotional turmoil associated with divorce.

Legally, there are certain implications to relocating away from the current jurisdiction where the children ordinarily reside. Before moving you and the noncustodial parent can negotiate with the absence of a lawyer, a written agreement about the moce and any changes to visitation that may be needed. If you cannot reach an agreement about the move, you then must file an Application/Motion to the court to hear your matter and for a judge to make a decision before you move. Usually the court requires at least 30 days notice to the other parent of your court Application/Motion. It may take longer to reach an agreement with the other parent or get a court order. It is a good idea to give notice of 90 days before the move, as as soon as possible and to consult with a lawyer first. Upon receiving this notice, they can challenge your proposed change of residence or apply for a variation to the existing custody or access orders.

The leading case that sets out the legal test in determining mobility is Gordon vs. Goertz (1996) 2. S.C.R. 27

Similar to any other action involving variation of an existing custody order, the person challenging the relocation has to show that the move will result in a material change in circumstances affecting the child. Once this has been established, a judge will determine the best interests of the child in light of the relevant circumstances. These relevant circumstances include the existing custody and access relationship, the relationship between the child and the custodial parent, the views of the child, and the reason for the proposed change of residence among other circumstances. As with every other custody proceeding, the judges determination will turn on the best interests of the child. The judge’s inquiry is individualized and will involve all factors relevant to the case at hand.

Because mobility has become so easy in today’s society, often separation agreements or custody orders will address relocation and place specific restrictions on changing residences. Non-removal clauses that ban the extra-provincial removal of children without consent of the noncustodial parent. In these cases, the custodial parent who wishes to relocate will have to initiate the action by placing an application with the court.

If you are contemplating a move, you must consider the emotional needs of your child, as well as your former spouse’s right to challenge your relocation. Typically, courts only allow a custodial parent to relocate if the proposed move is in good faith and not intended to frustrate the noncustodial parent’s relationship with the child. Additionally, if a custodial parent relocates, they must be willing to accommodate the noncustodial parent’s access to the child; sometimes this means that the relocating parent will have to pay the additional costs of access.

In sum, if you are a custodial parent, moving isn’t as easy as just loading up the car and hitting the road – but it is still possible.

Yes, but they will need to establish paternity, especially if the father and the mother separate. Here are the ways to establish paternity as recognized by the court:

  • Act of birth
  • Presumption of paternity
  • Uninterrupted possession of status
  • Voluntary declaration

No. Even when the parents are unmarried, divorced, or separated, one parent cannot keep the child from seeing the other unless the court deems it appropriate to the child’s best interests.

Historically, mothers have been more likely to get sole custody of their child in both consent and contested orders, as they are usually the child’s primary caregiver. However, as more mothers also work outside the home, courts could also rule in favor of the father.

The majority of judges strive to make decisions that are in your children’s best interest. Giving full custody to one parent is usually the best option, except in cases with concerns such as child or substance abuse. This typically means keeping in contact with and maintaining relationships with both parents.
You should do everything possible to prepare for the subsequent child custody negotiations, whether you’re a parent seeking full custody or shared custody:
Be honest with yourself about your ability to manage things alone, in terms of practicality, finances, and other factors. You may get the result you want by presenting the strongest case for custody by doing the following:

  • Make a Strategy: If custody is granted, a court will expect you to be ready. Compile thoughtful replies to hypothetical queries posed in court.
  • Speak with people who have gone through the child custody procedure before you. They may provide you advice and tell you what to anticipate.
  • Judges look for proof of a meaningful relationship in addition to making sure you can provide a child’s practical and basic needs. Simply put, be involved in your children’s lives.
  • Continue to pay child support regularly, whether you’re asking the court for full or shared custody. When you start the procedure, you’ll want to make sure you have a strong track record.
  • Keep a detailed log of your visitation schedule. This is a crucial aspect of obtaining child custody. Visitation records reflect how often you see your children under the present arrangements and your dependability, as well as dedication to them.
  • During all child custody hearings, the court will inquire about acceptable living accommodations. Even if you live in a tiny apartment, you should create a unique and secure environment for your child.
  • Courts may determine child custody in part by how you treat your child’s other parent. Being hostile or unpleasant to the other parent makes collaborative decision-making more complicated and can break apart parent-child ties. As a result, judges are more inclined to favor the parent who isn’t behaving badly.
  • While parents typically spend a lot of time thinking about what they believe is best for their children, children’s perspectives are sometimes overlooked. The court will be interested in learning what the children desire and will most likely question them directly at some point throughout the proceedings. You can better inform your decision-making by asking your child what they think.

No. Parenting time and child support are different from each other. While it is a child’s right to be provided with financial support, it is also their right to spend time with their parents. Thus, even if the child support was cancelled the parent formerly supporting can still enjoy parenting time with the child.

“There is no fixed age for when a child can say which parent they want to live with after a divorce. However, by law, a child must be 16 years old to decide on this matter. The exception to this is when there is a court order stating that a child/ren must live with one parent until they turn 17 or 18.

Under certain circumstances, it is possible to legally prevent your child/ren’s father from seeing or contacting them. It may be necessary if he presents a potential danger to your child/ren. If you were never married to the father of your child and there is no court order saying otherwise, you can do anything you want until paternity is confirmed.

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