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Father’s Rights

When parents separate, fathers often worry that they will be treated differently or that they will lose meaningful time with their children. In Ontario, parenting decisions are not supposed to be based on a parent’s gender. The central question is what arrangement is in the child’s best interests.

Although many people still use the words custody and access, current family law generally uses the terms decision-making responsibility and parenting time. Decision-making responsibility refers to major decisions about a child’s health, education, religion, and well-being. Parenting time refers to the time a child spends in a parent’s care.

At Gelman & Associates, our Toronto father’s rights lawyers help fathers understand their rights and responsibilities, prepare parenting proposals, respond to urgent disputes, and work toward arrangements that support the child’s safety, stability, and relationship with both parents where appropriate. To learn how we can assist with your family law matter, contact us now.

An Overview of Fathers’ Rights in Ontario

There is no separate legal category of “father’s rights” that gives fathers fewer or greater rights than mothers. Parents generally have equal entitlement to seek parenting orders, and courts assess each case under the best interests test outlined in the Children’s Law Reform Act or the federal Divorce Act.

A father may seek parenting time with their children, the right to be consulted before adoption, and the right to time off from work to raise their child. A father may also have child support obligations, even if the parenting schedule is still being negotiated.

Common issues fathers ask our lawyers about include:

  • Parenting time schedules for infants, school-age children, and teenagers;
  • Sole, joint, or parallel decision-making responsibility;
  • Access to school, medical, and extracurricular information;
  • Urgent situations where a parent is being denied time with a child;
  • Relocation, travel consent, and passport disputes;
  • Paternity issues and disputes;
  • Child support and special or extraordinary expenses; and
  • Parenting arrangements after allegations of family violence, substance use, or safety concerns.

Married and Unmarried Fathers in Ontario

There’s really no such thing as the “rights of a father” or the “rights of the mother.” Both parties have the same rights. In a custody battle, the parent who is given decision-making responsibility is determined by the child’s best interest.

Recognizing Unmarried Fathers’ Rights Recognizing Married Fathers’ Rights
  • Child custody is not awarded to the father until paternity is verified.
  • To get custody, the unwed father should establish the paternity of the child.
  • If you have proven your paternity, the court will grant you the privilege of raising your bloodline.
  • Parenting time with his children
  • The right to be consulted before the adoption
  • The right to time off from work to raise his child

Factors that Affect Child Custody for Fathers

Child custody is based on several factors, including the best interests of the child. These may include the child’s needs, the child’s relationship with each parent, each parent’s ability to care for the child, any history of family violence, the child’s views and preferences where appropriate, and the importance of stability.

Depending on the situation, a court may find that parenthood is more suited to one parent than the other. If this is the case, the court may need to step in and decide on custody and visitation arrangements.

A father who is seeking a parenting order should be prepared to show a clear, child-focused plan. Evidence may matter, but it should be gathered lawfully and presented carefully. A Toronto father’s rights lawyer can help determine what information is useful and what could create risk.

Some examples of evidence a father may use to prove that he is capable of raising the child include:

  • School records, report cards, teacher communications, and attendance records;
  • Medical, dental, counselling, or therapy records where available and appropriate;
  • Parenting calendars, caregiving routines, and schedules;
  • Messages about exchanges, appointments, expenses, or parenting decisions;
  • Photos, travel records, activity registrations, or proof of involvement;
  • Witnesses who can speak to caregiving and the child’s routine; and
  • Financial records relevant to support or special expenses.
  • And more

Practical Tips for Fathers in Parenting Disputes

The most effective approach to obtaining parental rights is usually to stay child-focused. Courts and negotiation professionals look closely at how each parent supports the child’s well-being and the child’s relationship with the other parent, where it is safe to do so.

Whenever a father is going into court for a custody battle, it is best to remember these valuable tips to win custody of a child:

  • Keep communication calm, respectful, and focused on the child.
  • Follow existing court orders or written agreements unless there is an immediate safety concern.
  • Instead of focusing on your ex partner or spouse, put your attention on your child.
  • Be reliable with exchanges, school attendance, appointments, and extracurricular activities.
  • Avoid speaking negatively about the other parent to the child or on social media.
  • Keep records of missed parenting time, denied access, late exchanges, or important decisions made without consultation.
  • Consider negotiation, mediation, or another dispute resolution process if it is safe and appropriate.
  • Seek legal advice before moving out, changing the child’s school, withholding support, or making major decisions.

As much as possible, a father should try to avoid these common mistakes:

  • Moving out of the home where the children live before obtaining legal advice
  • Living in a house or apartment that is unfit for the child to be present in
  • Failing to secure steady employment that can be verified in court

If there are safety concerns, allegations of abuse, or a restraining order, it is important to speak with a father’s rights lawyer as soon as possible. These issues can affect parenting arrangements, exchanges, communication, and the evidence needed in court.

Important Legal Terms Pertaining to Father’s Rights

Legal Term Definition
Decision-Making Responsibility The authority to make major decisions about a child’s health, education, religion, culture, and general well-being. This used to be referred to as ‘custody’.
Parenting Time The time a child spends in a parent’s care. During parenting time, that parent is generally responsible for day-to-day decisions unless an order or agreement says otherwise. This used to be referred to as ‘access’.
Contact Time or communication between a child and a non-parent, such as a grandparent, where ordered or agreed.
Best Interests of the Child The legal test used to decide parenting issues. It focuses on the child’s safety, security, well-being, relationships, and needs.
Child Support Financial support paid for a child according to income, parenting arrangements, and applicable guidelines.
Variation A request to change an existing court order or agreement when there has been a material change in circumstances.

We understand that you want what is best for your children. Don’t wait to assert your rights as a father. Call our experienced Toronto family lawyers at Gelman & Associates today to learn how we can help.

Pro Tip

To win custody of your child, don’t argue with the mother of your child. Instead, be more sensible and kind. Know that you might end up having a codependent relationship with her during the separation.

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How Can a Family Lawyer Help With Parenting Disputes?

Still thinking about how a legal professional can help in a custody battle? A family lawyer can help a father understand the legal options available, prepare evidence, develop a realistic parenting plan, negotiate with the other parent, and go to court where needed. Legal advice is especially important if parenting time is being denied, if there are safety allegations, or if the child may be relocated.

  • Family lawyers deal with issues related to child custody, child support, spousal support, and all other matters related to a family.
  • Family lawyers will gather all the necessary information, such as your high gross income, a good standard of living, and others, to prove that you would be the best parent to give your child the best future.
  • Address urgent issues such as denied parenting time, relocation, or safety concerns.
  • Assist with child support calculations and special expenses; and
  • Vary an existing parenting or support order if circumstances have changed.
  • And more.

In many cases, a father’s rights lawyer in Toronto can also help identify whether mediation or another form of resolution may be appropriate. In higher conflict cases, court may be necessary to protect the child’s best interests and create a clear, enforceable order.

Get In Touch With Our Experienced Father’s Rights Lawyers in Toronto Today

Dealing with separation, divorce, or decision-making responsibility can be some of the most stressful events of a person’s life. At Gelman & Associates, we strive to make this experience easier by empowering our clients to make informed decisions.

Our lawyers guide clients through Ontario’s family law system with compassion and understanding while still compassionately protecting their rights. With offices throughout North York, Toronto, Mississauga, Scarborough, Aurora, and Barrie, we are just a short distance away, no matter where you reside in the province.

Contact Gelman & Associates today to meet one of our experienced family law lawyers. We will work on your behalf to achieve the best possible resolution to your family law matter. Call us at (844) 736-0200 or contact us online for an initial consultation.

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Frequently Asked Questions

It is not uncommon for someone to want to relocate after a divorce. If you still live in the marital residence, the familiar surroundings and memories may be too much for your heart to handle. Or in the process of reinventing yourself post-divorce you may want to take a new job, move closer to your friends and family, or simply wish to start fresh somewhere new. There are many reasons a person may want to move after going through a divorce, however if you have children you will need to think twice before making a big move.

Emotionally, it can be challenging for a child to move to an unfamiliar place. Often, they are most at ease in a familiar environment with access to family and friends. Changing schools, living in a new city or even a new house can be difficult on a child, especially after dealing with the emotional turmoil associated with divorce.

Legally, there are certain implications to relocating away from the current jurisdiction where the children ordinarily reside. Before moving you and the noncustodial parent can negotiate with the absence of a lawyer, a written agreement about the moce and any changes to visitation that may be needed. If you cannot reach an agreement about the move, you then must file an Application/Motion to the court to hear your matter and for a judge to make a decision before you move. Usually the court requires at least 30 days notice to the other parent of your court Application/Motion. It may take longer to reach an agreement with the other parent or get a court order. It is a good idea to give notice of 90 days before the move, as as soon as possible and to consult with a lawyer first. Upon receiving this notice, they can challenge your proposed change of residence or apply for a variation to the existing custody or access orders.

The leading case that sets out the legal test in determining mobility is Gordon vs. Goertz (1996) 2. S.C.R. 27

Similar to any other action involving variation of an existing custody order, the person challenging the relocation has to show that the move will result in a material change in circumstances affecting the child. Once this has been established, a judge will determine the best interests of the child in light of the relevant circumstances. These relevant circumstances include the existing custody and access relationship, the relationship between the child and the custodial parent, the views of the child, and the reason for the proposed change of residence among other circumstances. As with every other custody proceeding, the judges determination will turn on the best interests of the child. The judge’s inquiry is individualized and will involve all factors relevant to the case at hand.

Because mobility has become so easy in today’s society, often separation agreements or custody orders will address relocation and place specific restrictions on changing residences. Non-removal clauses that ban the extra-provincial removal of children without consent of the noncustodial parent. In these cases, the custodial parent who wishes to relocate will have to initiate the action by placing an application with the court.

If you are contemplating a move, you must consider the emotional needs of your child, as well as your former spouse’s right to challenge your relocation. Typically, courts only allow a custodial parent to relocate if the proposed move is in good faith and not intended to frustrate the noncustodial parent’s relationship with the child. Additionally, if a custodial parent relocates, they must be willing to accommodate the noncustodial parent’s access to the child; sometimes this means that the relocating parent will have to pay the additional costs of access.

In sum, if you are a custodial parent, moving isn’t as easy as just loading up the car and hitting the road – but it is still possible.

Yes, but they will need to establish paternity, especially if the father and the mother separate. Here are the ways to establish paternity as recognized by the court:

  • Act of birth
  • Presumption of paternity
  • Uninterrupted possession of status
  • Voluntary declaration

No. Even when the parents are unmarried, divorced, or separated, one parent cannot keep the child from seeing the other unless the court deems it appropriate to the child’s best interests.

Historically, mothers have been more likely to get sole custody of their child in both consent and contested orders, as they are usually the child’s primary caregiver. However, as more mothers also work outside the home, courts could also rule in favor of the father.

The majority of judges strive to make decisions that are in your children’s best interest. Giving full custody to one parent is usually the best option, except in cases with concerns such as child or substance abuse. This typically means keeping in contact with and maintaining relationships with both parents.
You should do everything possible to prepare for the subsequent child custody negotiations, whether you’re a parent seeking full custody or shared custody:
Be honest with yourself about your ability to manage things alone, in terms of practicality, finances, and other factors. You may get the result you want by presenting the strongest case for custody by doing the following:

  • Make a Strategy: If custody is granted, a court will expect you to be ready. Compile thoughtful replies to hypothetical queries posed in court.
  • Speak with people who have gone through the child custody procedure before you. They may provide you advice and tell you what to anticipate.
  • Judges look for proof of a meaningful relationship in addition to making sure you can provide a child’s practical and basic needs. Simply put, be involved in your children’s lives.
  • Continue to pay child support regularly, whether you’re asking the court for full or shared custody. When you start the procedure, you’ll want to make sure you have a strong track record.
  • Keep a detailed log of your visitation schedule. This is a crucial aspect of obtaining child custody. Visitation records reflect how often you see your children under the present arrangements and your dependability, as well as dedication to them.
  • During all child custody hearings, the court will inquire about acceptable living accommodations. Even if you live in a tiny apartment, you should create a unique and secure environment for your child.
  • Courts may determine child custody in part by how you treat your child’s other parent. Being hostile or unpleasant to the other parent makes collaborative decision-making more complicated and can break apart parent-child ties. As a result, judges are more inclined to favor the parent who isn’t behaving badly.
  • While parents typically spend a lot of time thinking about what they believe is best for their children, children’s perspectives are sometimes overlooked. The court will be interested in learning what the children desire and will most likely question them directly at some point throughout the proceedings. You can better inform your decision-making by asking your child what they think.

No. Parenting time and child support are different from each other. While it is a child’s right to be provided with financial support, it is also their right to spend time with their parents. Thus, even if the child support was cancelled the parent formerly supporting can still enjoy parenting time with the child.

“There is no fixed age for when a child can say which parent they want to live with after a divorce. However, by law, a child must be 16 years old to decide on this matter. The exception to this is when there is a court order stating that a child/ren must live with one parent until they turn 17 or 18.

Under certain circumstances, it is possible to legally prevent your child/ren’s father from seeing or contacting them. It may be necessary if he presents a potential danger to your child/ren. If you were never married to the father of your child and there is no court order saying otherwise, you can do anything you want until paternity is confirmed.

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