Gelman Family Law Lawyers

Over 200+ 5-Star Google Reviews

Book Consult

A Court Cannot Order Parties to Appoint a Parenting Coordinator to Settle Disputes

Published: August 12, 2016

Book Consult1-844-736-0200
A Court Cannot Order Parties to Appoint a Parenting Coordinator to Settle Disputes

Following a case conference, parties to a family law proceeding (Michelon v. Ryder) reached a comprehensive agreement on a final order.  The Court noted that the agreement was an excellent result for all involved.  However, the Court questioned its jurisdiction to include a term in the order requiring the parties to submit to secondary arbitration.

The Paragraph in question read as follows:

The parties shall appoint Jared Norton as their Parenting Coordinator in accordance with section 59.7 of the Family Law Act and the Arbitration Act for a period of 2 years. Each party shall pay for his or her intake session with the Parenting Coordinator. Each joint session with the Parenting Coordinator will be a shared expense. The Parenting Coordinator shall facilitate communication of the parties and have the authority to resolve by mediation or arbitration only the enumerated issues set out on paragraph 45 herein in accordance with a “secondary arbitration” as defined in section 59.7 of the Family Law Act. If a dispute arises that cannot be resolved with the agreement of the parties and where the Parenting Coordinator is asked to render an arbitral award, the Parenting Coordinator will determine costs for each such award. The parties shall enter into the Parenting Coordinator’s standard agreement within 30 days. Neither party objects to the parenting Coordinator acting as arbitrator based on section 35 of the Arbitration Act.[1]

The Court noted that it was bound by a decision of the Ontario Court of Appeal [M.(C.A.) v. M.(D.)] in which the Court concluded that a court has “no authority” to delegate its power to determine custody or access to a third party.  This includes a lack of jurisdiction to order parents to jointly retain a parent co-ordinator with appropriate expertise to facilitate the parties’ communication, assist in decision-making, and arbitrate if necessary.

Further, the Court noted that:

[T]he FLA does not contain a grant of the right to delegate a court’s jurisdiction to third parties.  In fact, the definition section for Part IV of the FLA (Domestic Agreements) found at par. 51, makes reference to the terms “family law arbitration” and “family arbitration agreement”.  But it contains no reference to a family arbitration order.

Section 3 of the FLA allows the court to “…appoint a person whom the parties have selected to mediate any matter that the court specifies…”, but that grant of authority is far different than the jurisdiction to appoint an arbitrator.

The Court emphasized that it’s clear that the Ontario statutory framework for the use of arbitration to settle family law disputes requires consent, as expressed in an arbitration agreement, in order to commence the process.  That agreement can reference secondary arbitration to settle disputes that may arise later, however, it must be undertaken voluntarily.  Court orders, even those on consent, do not allow a shortcut to arbitration.

The Court summarized its findings by stating that nothing prevented the parties in this case from signing the arbitration agreement contemplated in the draft order.  They had already agreed to do so.  They simply could not ask the Court to order them to do so.

For advice on any family law matter, contact Gelman & Associates at (416) 736-0200 or (844) 736-0200 or contact us online for a confidential initial consultation.

Written by Lisa Gelman

Senior Lawyer

Senior Lawyer Lisa Gelman has over 25 years of family law experience and founded Gelman & Associates to provide strategic legal counsel in family law matters concerning divorce, parenting, separation, and more.

Frequently Asked Questions - enforcement & modification orders

A restraining order in the context of family court is an order that prohibits the contact that one party can have with another. Based on the particulars of a given restraining order, it can prohibit direct and/or indirect contact, and require that the party against whom the restraining order has been taken out maintain a certain physical distance from the other party. In the family law context, a restraining order has to be requested by way of a motion brought at the court. The party seeking the order must provide affidavit evidence to substantiate the need for the restraining order. The party against whom the order is sought must likewise have an opportunity to argue his/her case, and to this end judges will usually ask that a motion for a restraining order be brought with notice to the other party.

If you believe that your restraining order is required immediately, you may bring an urgent, ex parte motion for same (ex parte means that the motion is brought without notice to the other party, who is not served with your motion materials and is not given notice that the motion will even be taking place). Because restraining orders can affect possession of the matrimonial home and parenting time, it is imperative that the party against whom the order is sought have the opportunity to make his or her own case. Accordingly, if a judge grants a restraining order brought on an urgent, ex parte motion, the judge will also order that the motion return in one week’s time so that the party against  whom the order has been granted may be  properly served with motions materials and  have an opportunity to defend the action.

Suppose one of the parents does not follow the court’s order. He or she may be called to court and explain why she wasn’t able to uphold the initial agreement. If his or her reason isn’t valid, the court may change the earlier deal, and it may favor the other parent.

Each province and territory in Canada has a maintenance enforcement program for family orders and agreements. Additionally, the federal government may refuse to issue a Canadian passport if the applicant is delinquent in child support payments. They also have the authority to garnish wages for the back payments owed. In the USA, the Office of Child Support Enforcement, which is part of the Administration for Children and Families in the Department of Health and Human Services, is now in charge of the federal child support enforcement program.

Ex parte motions provide an exemption to the principles of due process in emergencies by allowing you to petition the court without having to give notice or serve the other parties in your case. If the judge issues the ex parte order, it’s only for a limited time.

Yes, it is possible to change the initial terms of a separation agreement if you and your spouse agree to the changes and sign a written agreement to change the terms. If your spouse does not agree to change the terms, you can make a court application to change the separation agreement.

No matter what the circumstances surrounding your separation agreement are, our Toronto separation lawyers can help you make changes when you need to.

You can use this motion if you need to change your order. By filing this motion, you’re asking the court to change something in your final order. It would help if you showed that there has been a substantial change in circumstances since the last court order. You can’t file this motion just because you disagree with the order. You shouldn’t also file this motion too soon after the court releases the final order. If things have changed in your children’s lives, you can ask to modify the order based on those changes. Other samples you can change may include but not be limited to:

  • Spousal support
  • Decision-making issues for the children
  • Issues related to parenting time
  • Child support

If you deny court-approved parenting time, it could be a possibility. The court may find you in contempt. You may also have to compensate the other person for any lost parenting time or legal fees they had to pay to enforce the parenting arrangement.

If you get an order and want to change it, you first need to assess your relationship with the opposing party.
If you both agree, you can apply for a consent order and need not go to court. If you do not, you may seek help from mediators or counsellors who can help you talk things out. If you still do not agree after mediation, you will need to apply to the court to change the order.

Related Blogs

Family law is what we do

Read our recent blogs on enforcement & modification orders topics in Ontario.

View all blogs

Locations We Serve

Multiple offices to help serve you better

With numerous offices across Ontario, we make it easier for our clients to have access to our lawyers. Please note that offices marked with an (**) are satellite offices and require a consultation booked in advance. We are not able to accommodate walk-in appointments at these locations. Call us to book a free consultation today.

Still have family law questions?

Speak to a lawyer

If you need legal advice regarding enforcement & modification orders matters in Ontario, contact our Toronto family law lawyers for a free consultation. Some conditions may apply.

Book Your Consult