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Contempt in Family Law Proceedings

Published: November 20, 2019

Last Updated: March 23, 2026

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Contempt in Family Law Proceedings

In a recent decision, an Ontario court grappled with the interesting question of when it may be appropriate to find a party in contempt in the context of family law proceedings.

The Parties’ Story

The parties separated in January 2016. They had two children together, ages seven and three.

Since separation, the parties had been involved in almost continuous motions involving the children. In September 2016, an order was made setting out the father’s access to the children.

Since the September order was made, access had gradually ceased. The mother claimed that the children were afraid of their father and refused to go on access visits. She stated that she did everything in her power to encourage the children to spend time with their father, but that the father displayed “bizarre and belligerent” behaviour that made it impossible to fully comply.

The father brought a motion to find the mother in contempt of court for breaching the September order. The mother brought a cross-motion seeking to modify the September order.

The Relevant Legal Principles

The court indicated that once it has been determined that access is in the best interests of a child, a parent cannot leave the decision to comply with the access order up to the child. In fact, if a parent fails to take concrete measures to have the child comply with an access order, it may constitute contempt.

The court went on to explain:

A finding of contempt is of course the most drastic enforcement mechanism available to the court. It opens the door to a range of sanctions including penal sanctions. Although the moving party does not seek a fine or imprisonment at this stage, nevertheless a finding of contempt is quasi-criminal in nature. It requires proof that the respondent wilfully breached a clear and unequivocal court order and it must be proven on the criminal standard, beyond a reasonable doubt. It is important to underscore that there are various other remedies available to the court to enforce its orders or to sanction breach of such orders even if the failure to abide by an order does not rise to the level of contempt. But it is not necessary to exhaust such steps before moving for contempt.

The Court’s Decision

In granting the father’s motion and making a finding of contempt, the court concluded that the mother had impeded the father’s access to the children. The court stated that despite the judge’s findings and clear direction that access was to proceed on an unsupervised basis, the mother continued to thwart that access and to impede the custody and access assessment.

The court adjourned the question of penalty or sanction for the mother’s contempt. The court explained that there are various remedies for contempt and that in any case, it would be appropriate to give the mother a chance to purge her contempt. It was also important to ensure that the remedy for the contempt finding would not inadvertently punish the children or expose them to further conflict or risk.

Lessons Learned

It is important to comply with court orders so that you will not be found in contempt.

If you are worried that you have breached a court order, or you believe your spouse has breached an order, it is best to speak with a lawyer. At Gelman & Associates, our lawyers provide exceptional legal representation in all family law matters. Our goal is to always empower clients to make informed decisions about their future. We give all prospective clients a comprehensive family law kit during their initial consultation, as well as a copy of our firm’s handbook on separation and divorce. This information is full of resources that will help you understand and navigate the difficult and often complicated separation and divorce process.

With six offices throughout Aurora, Barrie, Downtown Toronto, Mississauga, North York and Scarborough, we are easily accessible by transit and off-highway. Our phone lines are open Monday to Friday from 8:00 a.m. to 8:00 p.m. Call us at (844) 736-0200, or contact us online to schedule an initial consultation.

 

Written by Lisa Gelman

Senior Lawyer

Senior Lawyer Lisa Gelman has over 25 years of family law experience and founded Gelman & Associates to provide strategic legal counsel in family law matters concerning divorce, parenting, separation, and more.

Frequently Asked Questions - enforcement & modification orders

Each province and territory in Canada has a maintenance enforcement program for family orders and agreements. Additionally, the federal government may refuse to issue a Canadian passport if the applicant is delinquent in child support payments. They also have the authority to garnish wages for the back payments owed. In the USA, the Office of Child Support Enforcement, which is part of the Administration for Children and Families in the Department of Health and Human Services, is now in charge of the federal child support enforcement program.

Yes. In Ontario, existing family law orders (for decision-making responsibility, child support, spousal support, and more) can be changed if there has been a material change in circumstances since the order was made.

To modify an order, you can negotiate an amendment with your former partner, participate in mediation, or bring a motion to change in court. Your family lawyer will help you determine whether you qualify for a motion to change and represent you throughout the variation process.

If you deny court-approved parenting time, it could be a possibility. The court may find you in contempt. You may also have to compensate the other person for any lost parenting time or legal fees they had to pay to enforce the parenting arrangement.

Ex parte motions provide an exemption to the principles of due process in emergencies by allowing you to petition the court without having to give notice or serve the other parties in your case. If the judge issues the ex parte order, it’s only for a limited time.

If you get an order and want to change it, you first need to assess your relationship with the opposing party.

If you both agree, you can apply for a consent order and need not go to court. If you do not, you may seek help from mediators or counsellors who can help you talk things out. If you still do not agree after mediation, you will need to apply to the court to change the order.

You can use this motion if you need to change your order. By filing this motion, you’re asking the court to change something in your final order. It would help if you showed that there has been a substantial change in circumstances since the last court order. You can’t file this motion just because you disagree with the order. You shouldn’t also file this motion too soon after the court releases the final order. If things have changed in your children’s lives, you can ask to modify the order based on those changes. Other samples you can change may include but not be limited to:

  • Spousal support
  • Decision-making issues for the children
  • Issues related to parenting time
  • Child support

Temporary orders may be changed through agreement with your former spouse or through a court order. If you and your spouse are not in agreement about a change you wish to seek, you can make a motion to the court for a modification.

Yes, it is possible to change the initial terms of a separation agreement if you and your spouse agree to the changes and sign a written agreement to change the terms. If your spouse does not agree to change the terms, you can make a court application to change the separation agreement.

No matter what the circumstances surrounding your separation agreement are, our Toronto separation lawyers can help you make changes when you need to.

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