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What is the difference between a separation and divorce in Ontario?

Published: November 24, 2022

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What is the difference between a separation and divorce in Ontario?

In Ontario, a separation is when two people who have been living together as either married or common-law decide to end their relationship and live apart. However, in some instances the two individuals may not necessarily need to live in separate dwellings. The courts recognize that due to financial reasons, a couple may be considered separated even if they are living under the same roof and there are conditions that need to be met in this instance. 

A divorce on the other hand is when the court officially ends a marriage and their legal status gets changed from married to single. There is also a difference between a contested divorce and an uncontested divorce. For example, a contested divorce occurs when spouses dispute issues relating to the separation or divorce. Whereas an uncontested divorce occurs when issues related to the separation have been settled before a court application requesting the divorce has been started. 

How does property get divided after a separation or divorce in Ontario?

The Family Law Act governs how property gets divided in Ontario in addition to regulating the rights of spouses and dependants with respect to property, support, inheritance, prenuptial agreements, separation agreements and other important aspects of family law. After a couple have decided to end their relationship, their shared property can be divided. In most cases, if you are married then debts incurred collectively may be divided as well. 

Property may also include but is not limited to:

  • Bank accounts
  • Registered Retirement Savings Plans (RRSPs)
  • Tax-Free Savings Accounts (TFSAs)
  • Home(s) and personal belongings
  • Investments
  • Pension plans 
  • Cars
  • Pets
  • Insurance plans

There are many nuances in family law when it comes to dividing property. In fact, this part of family law is typically the most contentious part during divorce proceedings. To safeguard and protect your rights, we recommend you consult with a lawyer on this topic if you are about to separate or file for divorce. 

How does debt get divided after a separation or divorce in Ontario?

Debts may also include but are not limited to:

  • Loans
  • Mortgages
  • Lines of credit
  • Credit card debt

In Ontario, unless both parties have a marriage contract/prenuptial agreement or have agreed to other divisional terms – debt is typically split evenly if both individual names are on the account. However, debts assigned only to your name are considered your debt and not communal debt. In the cases of financial abuse, there may be even more exceptions. We recommend you consult with one of our divorce lawyers for legal advice on this topic.

What are the exceptions to equalization in Ontario?

There are some exceptions that allow one spouse to keep property they own and this is commonly referred to as excluded property. Examples of excluded property may include:

  • Inherited property (other than the matrimonial home) or property that was gifted to you
  • Funds receive from insurance payouts for the death of someone or for injuries 
  • Property that you and your spouse agreed to exclude through a prenuptial or postnuptial agreement
  • Investments
  • Pension contributions 

Additionally, if a couple decides to not divide their assets equally out of preference, the law refers to this as the unequal division of net family property. In a situation like this, you need to demonstrate why equal division is not an option to the court. There are also other exceptions if deceit, spousal abuse and other bad faith issues are involved. 

For legal advice on what constitutes excluded property we recommend you consult with one of our family lawyers. 

Book a consultation with our Ontario divorce lawyers 

At Gelman & Associates – our team of experienced divorce lawyers have been helping Ontarians with their divorces and separation matters for over 20 years. We take the time to listen to the needs of our clients in order to deliver the highest level of legal representation and resolve matters expeditiously. 

If you or a loved one need legal assistance with respect to your divorce – contact our law firm to book a consultation with a member of our legal team. While our main office is located in North York – we also have consultation offices in Aurora, Grimsby, Barrie, Mississauga, Scarborough and Whitby which require you to book an appointment with us beforehand. Contact us today to schedule a consultation with a member of our legal team.

Please be advised that this article contains legal information and not legal advice. Consult with a lawyer about the specific facts in your matter to determine what is legally advisable. 

Written by Lisa Gelman

Senior Lawyer

Senior Lawyer Lisa Gelman has over 25 years of family law experience and founded Gelman & Associates to provide strategic legal counsel in family law matters concerning divorce, parenting, separation, and more.

Frequently Asked Questions - divorce & separation

If you are litigating your matter, social media posts made by your spouse or partner may be relevant, especially if they contradict what your spouse is claiming in his or her pleadings.

For example, if a spouse is claiming financial hardship, a Facebook post that shows that spouse going on an expensive trip or posing with an expensive car can undermine such claim  and, potentially affect that party’s credibility in court if presented as evidence on a motion or at trial.

Further to photograph-based posts, statements that are made on social media by one party can be relevant if said posts (i) are related to the litigation, to issues of parenting  and/or (b) they contradict statements that were made by the party in his or her pleadings. For example, if a party who is attempting to establish that he or she is an appropriate custodial parent, then recent social media posts about extensive partying and drug use made by that party may be relevant in court, as they may speak to that party’s fitness when it comes to appropriate supervision of a child in his or her care.

The Ontario Attorney General’s website estimates that divorce proceedings can take approximately four to six months to complete, provided that all documents have been appropriately accomplished and submitted on time.

No. The law does not favour mothers over fathers in divorce proceedings. The judge will base his decision on the evidence laid out by both parties.

The main distinction between divorce and separation is that divorce ends your marriage formally. You and your partner are no longer married.
If you’re separated, you’re still legally married to each other even if you receive a formal separation, and you must continue to record that you’re married on documents.

No. You are not required to get a lawyer for a divorce. However, it is best if you retain one to ensure that you fully understand all your rights and obligations.

A joint divorce application occurs when you and your spouse both agree to a divorce and on all other family law matters such as parenting, spousal support, or division of property.

Yes, it is different. Family law problems are addressed mainly by provincial laws in Ontario. Divorce law, on the other hand, is controlled by federal legislation in the form of the Divorce Act, which applies uniformly across the country.

Divorce can be a difficult decision to make, especially if you’re unsure if your partner will sign the petition. However, a divorce does not require your partner’s consent. Although it may be a long process if your partner doesn’t comply, they will not be able to stop you indefinitely.

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