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Same Sex Divorce and Separation in Ontario

With the passing of The Civil Marriages Act in 2005, same sex marriage was finally legalized in Canada.

The laws with respect to same-sex (married) couples who are in the process of a separation and/or divorce are identical to heterosexual married couples as long as the parties reside primarily in Canada.

Divorce

Same-sex couples may obtain a divorce in Canada pursuant to the Divorce Act, provided they habitually reside in one of the provinces for at least twelve months. Just like heterosexual couples in the process of getting a divorce, same-sex couples must also satisfy one of the three grounds for divorce.

The 3 grounds for divorce are:

a) Living separate and apart for a period of at least 12 months.

b) Cruelty; whether it’s physical or mental cruelty making it intolerable to continue living with one another.

c) Adultery.

Spousal Support

Spousal support laws also apply in the same fashion for both heterosexual married couples and married same-sex couples. Depending on the specific facts of your case, entitlement to spousal support may arise.

There are three grounds for entitlement:

a) Compensatory claims, which are based on a spouse’s economic loss or disadvantage as a result of the role they took on during the marriage. For example, a spouse who stays at home to raise the children, while the other spouse is working full time. Another example would be moving for your spouse’s career or financially supporting your spouse’s education or training.

b) Non compensatory claims, which involve claims based on need and include claims where there is a significant decline in the standard of living from when the parties were married.

c) Contractual claims; which includes spousal support provisions covered in formal marriage contracts (a prenuptial agreement or post-nuptial agreement) but also includes implied or informal agreements such as immigration sponsorship agreements.

Division of Property and Equalization of Net Family Property

The laws with respect to the division of property and equalization under the Family Law Act are also the same for both married heterosexual couples and married same-sex couples. In order to determine the amount of equalization payable from one spouse to another, each spouse must provide a comprehensive list of assets and debts owned by them at the date of marriage (if available) and the date of separation. Determining the equalization payment is an onerous and difficult task. As such, hiring a lawyer to assist you with this process is always recommended.

Decision-Making Responsibility (Custody), Parenting Time (Access) and Child Support

The laws in relation to custody (which is now called decision-making responsibility), access (which is now called parenting time) and child support are no different for same sex couples. However, things become a little bit more complicated when the child is not biologically yours or is not your adoptive child. For more information, please call Gelman and Associates to assist you further.

Written by Negin Sari

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Family lawyer Negin Sari brings a resolution-focused approach to family law, drawing on her criminal law background and deacdes of experience in the legal field to make a difference for clients.

Frequently Asked Questions - divorce & separation

If you are litigating your matter, social media posts made by your spouse or partner may be relevant, especially if they contradict what your spouse is claiming in his or her pleadings.

For example, if a spouse is claiming financial hardship, a Facebook post that shows that spouse going on an expensive trip or posing with an expensive car can undermine such claim  and, potentially affect that party’s credibility in court if presented as evidence on a motion or at trial.

Further to photograph-based posts, statements that are made on social media by one party can be relevant if said posts (i) are related to the litigation, to issues of parenting  and/or (b) they contradict statements that were made by the party in his or her pleadings. For example, if a party who is attempting to establish that he or she is an appropriate custodial parent, then recent social media posts about extensive partying and drug use made by that party may be relevant in court, as they may speak to that party’s fitness when it comes to appropriate supervision of a child in his or her care.

The Ontario Attorney General’s website estimates that divorce proceedings can take approximately four to six months to complete, provided that all documents have been appropriately accomplished and submitted on time.

No. The law does not favour mothers over fathers in divorce proceedings. The judge will base his decision on the evidence laid out by both parties.

The main distinction between divorce and separation is that divorce ends your marriage formally. You and your partner are no longer married.
If you’re separated, you’re still legally married to each other even if you receive a formal separation, and you must continue to record that you’re married on documents.

No. You are not required to get a lawyer for a divorce. However, it is best if you retain one to ensure that you fully understand all your rights and obligations.

A joint divorce application occurs when you and your spouse both agree to a divorce and on all other family law matters such as parenting, spousal support, or division of property.

Yes, it is different. Family law problems are addressed mainly by provincial laws in Ontario. Divorce law, on the other hand, is controlled by federal legislation in the form of the Divorce Act, which applies uniformly across the country.

Divorce can be a difficult decision to make, especially if you’re unsure if your partner will sign the petition. However, a divorce does not require your partner’s consent. Although it may be a long process if your partner doesn’t comply, they will not be able to stop you indefinitely.

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