During your divorce, your financial circumstances will probably change. Many people choose to move in with parents or friends when they separate from their spouse – either to save money or to have access to supportive people (or both). If you intend to move in with your parents or with friends, let your Mississauga divorce lawyer know. He or she will be able to help you determine the best time to make the move during your divorce and provide other legal advice that your situation requires.
The Case for Living with Parents or Friends after Separation
After you separate from your spouse (or when you’re thinking about leaving), you’ll have to make a choice: buy a new home, rent an apartment or move in with family or friends. Most people make the choice based on their financial situation and their families’ ability to provide living space.
The average home price in Mississauga fluctuates every year, as does the population and the cost of living. Since every divorce case is different, and your circumstances are unique, you’ll need to ask your Mississauga divorce lawyer what he or she would advise in your situation.
Moving in with Parents: Statistics
Whether your Mississauga divorce lawyer has suggested that you move in with family or friends after your separation, or you’ve decided to on your own, you’re not alone. More adults are living with their parents than ever before, according to Statistics Canada.
As many as 51 percent of Canadian adults up to the age of 29 are living with their parents, says Statistics Canada’s study, and many of those are separated or divorced.
Making Your Move
If, after consulting with your Mississauga divorce lawyer, you choose to move back in with your parents or to move in with friends, you’ll need to do it at the right time. In some cases, moving out of your family home can affect your divorce case. Make sure you discuss timing with your Mississauga divorce lawyer, or you may be putting certain aspects of your case in jeopardy.
What to Expect after the Move
Living with friends or family – especially if you’ve been on your own for a while – can be a psychological challenge; not just for you, but for them. There will be an adjustment period. If you’re moving with kids, be prepared to help them through the adjustment, too.
Be appreciative that your family or friends are letting you live with them. That means cleaning up after yourself (and your kids or pets), being considerate of their personal space and respecting their boundaries, according to Psychology Today.
Try to focus on the positive aspects of living with others. You’ll be able to save money, have a steady stream of psychological support and plan your future without constantly worrying about the next obstacle. If your parents or friends are willing to help, be courteous about accepting it – but don’t walk all over them.
Keep Your Mississauga Divorce Lawyer Updated
Remember to keep your Mississauga divorce lawyer in the loop. When your living arrangements change, he or she needs to know. Provide your Mississauga divorce lawyer with updated addresses and phone numbers as necessary so he or she can stay in touch with you regarding your case. Your living arrangements may affect your case, especially when you’re dealing with child custody, so make sure you tell your Mississauga divorce lawyer about your living situation each time it changes.