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What Are the Child Custody Rights of Unmarried Parents?

Children are frequently the most important issue for spouses going through a separation or divorce. Custody, visitation, and child support issues are usually difficult to resolve, and when parents are divorced, those same issues become considerably more problematic. 

In some cases, the child custody decision might be reached peacefully by the parents throughout the separation process. If this is the case, the couple should ensure that their agreements are adequately documented in a legally enforceable separation agreement

If an agreeable arrangement cannot be reached, the courts will decide who will have custody and what sort of custody they will have. This is not a choice to be taken lightly, and divorce law establishes specific fundamental guidelines for a judge to follow when making such a significant decision. 

To help you better understand your rights as a parent, here are a few principles pertaining to child custody for unmarried parents in Ontario.

Child Custody Rights In Canada

Child custody laws for unmarried parents relate to a specific legal ability to make choices for a child whose parents are no longer married. At the time of separation, parents might amicably decide on child custody. If the couple agrees on anything, they should set out a legally enforceable separation agreement. 

If an agreeable arrangement cannot be reached, the court will determine who will have custody and what form of custody will be granted. Divorce law establishes specific fundamental criteria that a judge must follow when making such a significant judgment. Therefore, the arrangements for child custody and access will have a considerable influence on a child’s well-being. 

Child support, spousal support, and property partition may all be affected by such judgments. As a result, it’s critical for all parties to seek legal counsel concerning custody during the divorce process in order to safeguard your legal rights as unmarried parents. The federal Divorce Act, as well as provincial custody legislation, make up Canada’s custody laws.

Types of Custodial Arrangements in Canada 

If a child custody matter goes to court, the court will consider several relevant criteria before making a custody decision. There are four options when it comes to child custody in Canada — sole custody, joint custody, shared custody, and split custody. Here’s a closer look at each one:

Sole Custody 

When a parent has sole custody of a child, also known as complete custody, only one parent makes decisions that impact that child, and the other parent is not involved in those decisions. A parent with parental rights has the right to obtain information regarding issues that affect their child’s well-being. This can contain information from the child’s doctor, dentist, and teachers, depending on the child’s age.

Joint Custody

When two parents have joint custody of a child, they are both accountable for making choices on behalf of the child. This is often referred to as shared legal custody. If parents can’t agree, they can try mediation or hire a parenting coordinator who has the power to settle the problem. The court will usually give joint custody to parents who are able to collaborate on parenting issues.

Shared Custody

The parents reside in different households and have shared custody of their children and each parent spends at least 40% of their time with the child/children in this arrangement.

Split Custody

In this case, if there is more than one child, one parent has custody of some of the children while the other has custody of the remaining children. The court should never separate younger siblings (children under the age of 18) from their siblings. Older siblings (18 years and older), on the other hand, frequently opt to live with separate parents.

Parental Rights of Never-married Parents

Knowing your rights as parents who aren’t married in Canada might help you avoid difficult legal circumstances. Unmarried couples in Canada have the following fundamental child custody rights:

Mother’s Rights

A child born out of wedlock is automatically given to the mother. However, the father might seek custody for several reasons. According to the Supreme Court of Canada, an unmarried mother cannot simply move away from the child’s father without his consent. Even though the child’s mother has sole custody, the father must be informed and have a say. 

If no rational cause exists pertaining to the child’s well-being, no provincial court would allow the mother to keep the child away from the father. Even so, if the mother gets exclusive custody, things might be quite straightforward. Because she is entirely responsible for the kid’s well-being, the mother may nonetheless be permitted to keep the child away. The issue occurs when the child is shared between the father and the mother.

Father’s Rights

Fathers are not usually afforded the same opportunities as mothers. For example, if he is not married to the child’s mother, an unmarried father may not have the same legal protection as a legally married father. Again, it’s because unmarried dads’ rights aren’t recognized until paternity can be established. 

Before seeking custody of his child, an unmarried father must establish paternity. If paternity cannot be established, he will have no authority over the child’s life. This covers child support payments as well. 

In addition, a parent can terminate paternity over his child to avoid paying child support. By doing this, unmarried fathers are not legally obligated to provide assistance throughout their separation.

Canadian Custody Laws That May Apply to Unmarried Parents

The federal Divorce Act In Canada, the Divorce Act governs the dissolution of marriages. It discusses how married couples get divorced and when foreign divorce decrees are accepted in the United States. It also discusses child custody and access after a divorce, as well as child support and spousal support.
Provincial custody legislation (i.e. the Ontario Children’s Law Reform Act) The Children’s Law Reform Act (CLRA) is a provincial law that only applies to residents of Ontario. It focuses on children’s concerns, such as post-separation parenting arrangements and assistance.
The court’s parent of the nation jurisdiction The Supreme Court has parents’ authority to issue protective orders for people who are unable to defend themselves, especially minors. However, the Court’s primary concern is the best interests of the child, and its authority must be used with extreme discretion.

Who Has Custody of a Child When the Parents Are Not Married in Canada?

In general, Canada’s legal system treats both parents equally and gives them equal rights. For example, in the event of a separation or divorce, unmarried parents may reach an agreement in which one of them takes exclusive custody of the child, or they may agree to share joint custody and submit a sample child custody agreement for unmarried parents. However, joint custody does not imply that the child spends equal amounts of time with each parent. 

A parent or another individual, such as a family member or acquaintance, can petition the courts for custody of a child under Canadian law. The applicant’s clear intention to parent and care for the child is taken into account by the courts. However, when it comes to child custody, women will almost always be the first to get the custody order without any complications. 

Even though the law favors the mother, the biological fathers can still seek custody of their children, but they must first establish paternity before filing a custody claim in court. The unmarried father could enjoy full legal custody of his child once paternity is proved. 

There’s still a chance that the custody judgment may be contested. In such custody cases, it is recommended that both parents work together and make a decision that will keep the best interests of the child at heart.

Calculating Child Support Payments

Children have a legal right to financial support from their parents, even if both are not married to one another. 

If both parents could agree on an appropriate amount for child support, they may set up their own child support agreement. It’s best to put the agreement into writing with both parents’ signatures to avoid misunderstandings and ensure proper enforcement. 

If the parents cannot agree or want some assistance, the court could decide. The court would likely make their decision based on the Federal Child Support Tables, which consider the parent’s income and the province of residence. 

You could use the official Child Support Calculator based on these tables, which will give you a baseline value.

Seek Legal Assistance From the Experienced Family Law Lawyers of Gelman & Associates

Gelman & Associates offers efficient legal assistance during custody and access disputes that are customized to the client’s specific requirements. We aim to provide clients with the information they need to make educated decisions about custody and access, and will actively fight on their behalf when required. 

During a separation, divorce, or any other family law case, contact Gelman & Associates to learn how skilled family law lawyers can assist in safeguarding your rights and assets. Our phone lines are open Monday through Friday from 8 a.m. to 8 p.m. in order to be available to current and potential clients. For a discreet initial consultation, call (844) 736-0200 or (844) 736-0200, or contact us online.

Written by Lisa Gelman

Senior Lawyer

Senior Lawyer Lisa Gelman has over 25 years of family law experience and founded Gelman & Associates to provide strategic legal counsel in family law matters concerning divorce, parenting, separation, and more.

Frequently Asked Questions - child custody & access

It is not uncommon for someone to want to relocate after a divorce. If you still live in the marital residence, the familiar surroundings and memories may be too much for your heart to handle. Or in the process of reinventing yourself post-divorce you may want to take a new job, move closer to your friends and family, or simply wish to start fresh somewhere new. There are many reasons a person may want to move after going through a divorce, however if you have children you will need to think twice before making a big move.

Emotionally, it can be challenging for a child to move to an unfamiliar place. Often, they are most at ease in a familiar environment with access to family and friends. Changing schools, living in a new city or even a new house can be difficult on a child, especially after dealing with the emotional turmoil associated with divorce.

Legally, there are certain implications to relocating away from the current jurisdiction where the children ordinarily reside. Before moving you and the noncustodial parent can negotiate with the absence of a lawyer, a written agreement about the moce and any changes to visitation that may be needed. If you cannot reach an agreement about the move, you then must file an Application/Motion to the court to hear your matter and for a judge to make a decision before you move. Usually the court requires at least 30 days notice to the other parent of your court Application/Motion. It may take longer to reach an agreement with the other parent or get a court order. It is a good idea to give notice of 90 days before the move, as as soon as possible and to consult with a lawyer first. Upon receiving this notice, they can challenge your proposed change of residence or apply for a variation to the existing custody or access orders.

The leading case that sets out the legal test in determining mobility is Gordon vs. Goertz (1996) 2. S.C.R. 27

Similar to any other action involving variation of an existing custody order, the person challenging the relocation has to show that the move will result in a material change in circumstances affecting the child. Once this has been established, a judge will determine the best interests of the child in light of the relevant circumstances. These relevant circumstances include the existing custody and access relationship, the relationship between the child and the custodial parent, the views of the child, and the reason for the proposed change of residence among other circumstances. As with every other custody proceeding, the judges determination will turn on the best interests of the child. The judge’s inquiry is individualized and will involve all factors relevant to the case at hand.

Because mobility has become so easy in today’s society, often separation agreements or custody orders will address relocation and place specific restrictions on changing residences. Non-removal clauses that ban the extra-provincial removal of children without consent of the noncustodial parent. In these cases, the custodial parent who wishes to relocate will have to initiate the action by placing an application with the court.

If you are contemplating a move, you must consider the emotional needs of your child, as well as your former spouse’s right to challenge your relocation. Typically, courts only allow a custodial parent to relocate if the proposed move is in good faith and not intended to frustrate the noncustodial parent’s relationship with the child. Additionally, if a custodial parent relocates, they must be willing to accommodate the noncustodial parent’s access to the child; sometimes this means that the relocating parent will have to pay the additional costs of access.

In sum, if you are a custodial parent, moving isn’t as easy as just loading up the car and hitting the road – but it is still possible.

Yes, but they will need to establish paternity, especially if the father and the mother separate. Here are the ways to establish paternity as recognized by the court:

  • Act of birth
  • Presumption of paternity
  • Uninterrupted possession of status
  • Voluntary declaration

No. Even when the parents are unmarried, divorced, or separated, one parent cannot keep the child from seeing the other unless the court deems it appropriate to the child’s best interests.

Historically, mothers have been more likely to get sole custody of their child in both consent and contested orders, as they are usually the child’s primary caregiver. However, as more mothers also work outside the home, courts could also rule in favor of the father.

The majority of judges strive to make decisions that are in your children’s best interest. Giving full custody to one parent is usually the best option, except in cases with concerns such as child or substance abuse. This typically means keeping in contact with and maintaining relationships with both parents.
You should do everything possible to prepare for the subsequent child custody negotiations, whether you’re a parent seeking full custody or shared custody:
Be honest with yourself about your ability to manage things alone, in terms of practicality, finances, and other factors. You may get the result you want by presenting the strongest case for custody by doing the following:

  • Make a Strategy: If custody is granted, a court will expect you to be ready. Compile thoughtful replies to hypothetical queries posed in court.
  • Speak with people who have gone through the child custody procedure before you. They may provide you advice and tell you what to anticipate.
  • Judges look for proof of a meaningful relationship in addition to making sure you can provide a child’s practical and basic needs. Simply put, be involved in your children’s lives.
  • Continue to pay child support regularly, whether you’re asking the court for full or shared custody. When you start the procedure, you’ll want to make sure you have a strong track record.
  • Keep a detailed log of your visitation schedule. This is a crucial aspect of obtaining child custody. Visitation records reflect how often you see your children under the present arrangements and your dependability, as well as dedication to them.
  • During all child custody hearings, the court will inquire about acceptable living accommodations. Even if you live in a tiny apartment, you should create a unique and secure environment for your child.
  • Courts may determine child custody in part by how you treat your child’s other parent. Being hostile or unpleasant to the other parent makes collaborative decision-making more complicated and can break apart parent-child ties. As a result, judges are more inclined to favor the parent who isn’t behaving badly.
  • While parents typically spend a lot of time thinking about what they believe is best for their children, children’s perspectives are sometimes overlooked. The court will be interested in learning what the children desire and will most likely question them directly at some point throughout the proceedings. You can better inform your decision-making by asking your child what they think.

No. Parenting time and child support are different from each other. While it is a child’s right to be provided with financial support, it is also their right to spend time with their parents. Thus, even if the child support was cancelled the parent formerly supporting can still enjoy parenting time with the child.

“There is no fixed age for when a child can say which parent they want to live with after a divorce. However, by law, a child must be 16 years old to decide on this matter. The exception to this is when there is a court order stating that a child/ren must live with one parent until they turn 17 or 18.

Under certain circumstances, it is possible to legally prevent your child/ren’s father from seeing or contacting them. It may be necessary if he presents a potential danger to your child/ren. If you were never married to the father of your child and there is no court order saying otherwise, you can do anything you want until paternity is confirmed.

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