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Court Grapples With Child Abduction Across Borders

Published: October 4, 2019

Last Updated: September 12, 2025

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Court Grapples With Child Abduction Across Borders

International boundaries can introduce numerous complications when child custody is an issue between parents going through separation or divorce. When one parents wants to move to another country with the child, the other parent may object. Courts can consider a number of factors when determining where the child “habitual residence” is when deciding where the child should ultimately live. Additionally, parents who remove a child from the a country in violation of a court order introduce criminal acts to an already difficult situation. A recent decision from the Ontario Superior Court of Justice highlights some of the challenging scenarios courts can face when working through such issues.

The Abduction

The child involved in the trial was six-years-old at the time. She is a citizen of the United Kingdom. Her mother, a Canadian citizen, met her father, a citizen of Saudi Arabia and the United Kingdom in London and began living together there in 2012. The child was born one year later.

The parents separated shortly after the child was born. The mother wanted to move with the daughter to Wales in September, 2013, but was prevented from doing so via a court order. The mother was granted custody of the child on 2015, with the father being granted access three times per week.

The father moved to Dubai in November 2015, and the mother and daughter moved there in April 2018. The parents lived together for a short time following the arrival of the mother and daughter. However, the reunion was short-lived. In March 2019 the father moved out of the apartment the family shared. In May 2019 the mother took the child’s passport from the father’s apartment and left with the child to Canada via Lebanon.

The father went to court seeking a motion for the return of the child to Dubai, claiming it is the child’s habitual residence. He also sought an order that the mother not remove the daughter from Toronto without a court order, and that she had over the child’s passport to the father’s lawyer’s office.

Is the Father’s Request Valid?

The first thing the court had to do was determine whether it had the jurisdiction to make the order since the father is not a resident of Ontario. Neither Lebanon or the United Arab Emirates are signatories to the Hague Convention. Canada is a member of the Convention, which outlines how situations such as this are handled. However, the court was able to turn to the Children’s Law Reform Act, which can also apply. Section 40 of the Act states,

“Upon application, a court, (a) that is satisfied that a child has been wrongfully removed to or is being wrongfully retained in Ontario; or (b) that may not exercise jurisdiction under section 22 or that has declined jurisdiction under section 25 or 42, may do any one or more of the following:

1. Make such interim order in respect of the custody or access as the court considers is in the best interest of the child.

2. Stay the application subject to, i. the condition that a party to the application promptly commence a similar proceeding before an extra-provincial tribunal; or ii. such other conditions as the court considers appropriate.

3. Order a party to return the child to such a place as the court considers appropriate and, in the discretion of the court, order payment of the cost of the reasonable travel and other expenses of the child and any parties to or witnesses at the hearing of the application.”

The court’s responsibility stemming from the Act is to promote the child’s best interests, allow her to have contact with both parents, and ideally return the child to the situation she was in prior to the abduction.

The court determined it was within the child’s best interest to grant all of the requests being made by the father, particularly since Lebanon and the UAE are not signatories to the Hague Convention.

Contact Gelman & Associates to learn how knowledgeable family law lawyers can protect your custody and access rights. We strive to provide you with the information and resources necessary to make informed decisions about family law matters. In addition to a comprehensive family law kit that all clients are given during their initial consultation, we also offer live webinars on divorce in Ontario and quarterly “Ask the Lawyer” live webinars. To help you maintain positive mental health during a difficult period, we also offer our clients a free consultation with a psychological professional.

Written by Lisa Gelman

Senior Lawyer

Senior Lawyer Lisa Gelman has over 25 years of family law experience and founded Gelman & Associates to provide strategic legal counsel in family law matters concerning divorce, parenting, separation, and more.

Frequently Asked Questions - child custody & access

Ontario law does not specify the age at which a child can decide which parent to live with. At most, the Court may consider the preference of the child but that does not necessarily mean that the Court will act favorably on it. The court will consider the child’s maturity, ability to articulate their desires, and the reasoning behind their views when seeking their opinion.

If a parenting plan is included in your court order under the Divorce Act, the document will be legally binding.

In order to change your child’s last name, you will have to be the child’s parent with legal custody or be the legal guardian of the child. In order to change the child’s last name, you will have to provide notice to anyone who has legal access to the child, and that may include your ex-spouse.

In most cases, the answer is no. However, there can be some exceptions that the mother can build a case upon. These include the father putting the child at risk, non-compliance with the court order, or a history of violence by the father.

Creating a custody plan with a narcissistic ex-partner is a task best left to legal professionals. While there might not be one way to deal with a narcissistic ex, there are things that you can do to turn the tables on a narcissistic co-parent. The best way to prevent problems is to go with no contact or limited contact with your ex-partner and put everything in writing if you must only communicate via email or text message to record statements and harassment.

Let us consider that the “moving away” is relocation and not just a change in residency.

Then, let us qualify that the mother will take your child with her.

If the mother is the primary caregiver of the child, you may oppose the relocation by applying the principles laid down under the Gordon vs. Goertz case. You must present your case strongly as to why potentially cutting your child’s relationship as the primary caregiver is to your child’s best interest. This situation falls under the purview of Section 16.93(2) of the Divorce Act.

If both you and the mother have equal parenting time over your child, the mother of the child has the burden of proof as to why the relocation is for the best interest of your child. This situation falls under the purview of Section 16.93(1) of the Divorce Act.

If there is no Court ordered, approved, or awarded parenting time or separation agreement, as contemplated under Section 16.93(3) of the Divorce Act, the mother has the burden of proof to show that relocation is in the best interest of your child.

Note that even if the burden of proof is not laid upon you, it still recommended that you present a strong opposition to the relocation.

Yes, it is possible for your ex to prevent you from relocating with a child you share, although this will likely plan on your parenting arrangements and decision-making responsibility. If you cannot agree about a relocation, a court will decide based on the child’s best interests.

Generally, you need to provide your ex with 60 days’ written notice of your relocation plan, and you must obtain consent or a court order to move the child. A lawyer can help you navigate this process. Our divorce lawyers will guide you through the application and court order process.

Yes, but they will need to establish paternity, especially if the father and the mother separate. Here are the ways to establish paternity as recognized by the court:

  • Act of birth
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  • Uninterrupted possession of status
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