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Ex-Husband Attempts to Set Aside His Child Support Obligations, Court Orders Him to Continue Paying

Published: September 5, 2018

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Ex-Husband Attempts to Set Aside His Child Support Obligations, Court Orders Him to Continue Paying

An Ontario court recently evaluated a situation in which an ex-husband argued that the child support provisions in a marriage contract should be struck. The court ultimately upheld the child support clauses and found that the ex-husband continued to be responsible for supporting the children for a number of reasons.

What Happened?

The parties had cohabited for four years, and had been married for three of those years. They had met online, with the ex-wife living in Halifax, Nova Scotia with two children from a previous marriage, and the ex-husband living in Colborne, Ontario.

The ex-husband was a shareholder in various corporations that grew, stored, processed, and distributed apples, and he owned apple orchards in Colborne. Once the relationship became serious, but before the couple was engaged, the ex-husband told the ex-wife that she and the children would need to move to Ontario so that he could continue to be involved in his apple businesses.

The ex-husband was wealthy, and had expensive hobbies, including big game hunting (he took major hunting trips annually to places all across the planet, costing on average between $10,000 and $15,000). He built the family a luxury custom-built home, drove expensive vehicles (including one that he purchased for the ex-wife), and the couple went on two luxury honeymoons.

The ex-wife’s biggest asset brought into the marriage was a pension plan from her Nova Scotia employer (Yellow Pages).

The couple was married in 2011, approximately one year after the ex-wife and children moved to Ontario, and about two years after they met.

The Marriage Contract

Several weeks before the wedding, the ex-husband told the ex-wife that his apple corporation required that they enter into a marriage contract in order to protect his business interests.

The parties each retained a lawyer and a marriage contract was executed in which all of the ex-husband’s business interests were excluded from net family property and provided little to the ex-wife in the event of a separation.

The contract did protect the ex-wife’s pension and, unusually, required the ex-husband to pay child support in the event of a separation (marriage contracts are generally silent on child support obligations).

The Child Support Provision

Paragraphs 10 and 11 of the marriage contract required the ex-husband (David) to pay child support to the ex-wife (Christine) for support of the two children (Tristyn and Cole).  These provisions read as follows:

  1. David acknowledges that Christine has two children of a previous marriage, namely Cole MacDonald, born November 15, 2001 and Tristyn Lauren MacDonald, born September 16, 2004.  Christine has custody of the children and they reside with her and David.
  2. David acknowledges that he stands in place of a parent (“in loco parentis”) to Christine’s children, Tristyn and Cole, and shall financially support them as though they are children of his family.  Upon separation, David shall pay Christine child support for the above named children at a minimum rate of $2,543.00 per month based on an income of $197,500.00 until such time as the children turn 18 years of age and/or until they are considered independent adults.

The Ex-Husband’s Position

The ex-husband argued that the child support provisions in the marriage agreement should be set aside.

He relied on s.33(4)(a) of the FLA, which allows the court to set aside a support provision if it results in unconscionable circumstances, in support of his position:

Setting aside domestic contract

(4) The court may set aside a provision for support or a waiver of the right to support in a domestic contract and may determine and order support in an application under subsection (1) although the contract contains an express provision excluding the application of this section,

(a) if the provision for support or the waiver of the right to support results in unconscionable circumstances;

The ex-husband argued that because a relationship between himself and the two children no longer existed following the couple’s separation, it would therefore be unconscionable to uphold his child support obligation under the marriage contract.

Unconscionability

The court noted that since the ex-wife’s claim for support was made and granted under the Divorce Act (federal),  the ex-husband’s attempt to invoke s.33(4)(a) of the Family Law Act (provincial) was invalid. If the court were to allow the ex-husband’s argument, it would effectively turn s.33(4)(a) into an override provision. As such, the court concluded that the ex-husband could not rely on that part of the statute.

The court further noted that if the above approach was incorrect, the court would still disallow the ex-husband’s attempt to rely on s.33(4)(a) since, based on the scope of the ex-husband’s relationship with the children, the child support provisions in the marriage contract did not result in unconscionable circumstances towards the ex-husband. The court emphasized that unconscionable is not simply unfair or unjust.

The court noted that if the provision for support was set aside, as the ex-husband wanted, the unconscionable effect would be on the children, not the ex-husband, especially since the ex-husband had bargained to preserve his business wealth in exchange for a promise to support the children. The court stated:

It would be a strange result, indeed, if David were allowed to retain all of the benefit of the agreement without having to abide by the bargain he made in consideration for that agreement.

The court went on to stress that all family law legislation (whether federal or provincial) should be interpreted in favour of children. While there is a great deal of caselaw dealing with unconscionability, most of those cases deal with spousal support and not child support. The court knew of no cases that would allow it to consider unconscionability when addressing only child support.

The court concluded that the child support provisions in the marriage contract would not be set aside on the basis of unconscionability.

In Loco Parentis

The court noted that it was important to ascertain the wishes and intentions of the parties in making a final decision about the child support provisions.

The court noted that neither party produced direct evidence as to their understanding of the meaning of the two clauses, including evidence of what they intended when they used the terms “in loco parentis” and “stands in the place of a parent.”

The court, therefore, decided to address the matter by evaluating the relationship between the ex-husband and the children rather than to treat the provisions simplistically and accept that child support must be paid because that was the bargain.

The ex-husband argued that while he stood in the place of a parent to the children prior to the parents’ separation, he no longer did so because he and the children have no relationship.

The ex-wife relied on a Supreme Court decision which had previously held that once a person is found to stand in the place of a parent, the relationship cannot be unilaterally withdrawn, and breakdown of the relationship following separation is not a relevant factor.

The court found that, on the facts, it was clear that the ex-husband had a part to play in the poor relationship that developed with the children after the separation, which he then tried to minimize. In addition, the court found that it was the ex-husband’s antipathy towards the ex-wife which prevented him from having an ongoing relationship with the children, also noting:

For David to be successful in his argument that he is estranged from the children and that none of the estrangement is his fault, he would have had to convince me on a balance of probabilities that he was and remains entirely innocent in causing the estrangement.

The court ultimately found that, in all of the circumstances of this case, the children were entitled to support because the ex-husband continued to stand in place of a parent to them within the meaning of the contract.

If you have questions about your rights and those of your children following separation or divorce, contact Gelman & Associates. Our goal is to always empower clients to make informed decisions about their future. We give all prospective clients a comprehensive family law kit during their initial consultation, as well as a copy of our firm’s handbook on separation and divorce. This information is full of resources that will help you understand and navigate the difficult and often complicated separation and divorce process.

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Written by Lisa Gelman

Senior Lawyer

Senior Lawyer Lisa Gelman has over 25 years of family law experience and founded Gelman & Associates to provide strategic legal counsel in family law matters concerning divorce, parenting, separation, and more.

Frequently Asked Questions - child support

The Federal Child Support Guidelines are in place to dictate a fair amount of child support, and generally courts are inclined to follow the guidelines strictly. The guidelines employ a mathematical formula taking into consideration the support paying parent’s annual income and the number of children and provide an amount. The general rule is that the guidelines should be adhered to.  There are a few circumstances, however, which permit a court to deviate from the Child Support Guidelines. Examples are as follows:

Where the person seeking child support is not a biological parent but rather one who stands in place of a parent. This means that a divorcing step parent could be ordered to pay child support to his or her step-children if that spouse stood in the place of a parent during the marriage. According to the Divorce Act, a spouse “stands in place of a parent” when his or her conduct manifests an intention of placing himself or herself in the situation ordinarily occupied by the biological parent by assuming the responsibility of providing for the child’s economic and parenting needs. Courts will look at a variety of factors before making this determination.

Where the child is over the provincial age of majority. This is determined by the laws of the province where the child ordinarily resides. If the child ordinarily resides outside of Canada, the age of majority is eighteen years of age.

Where the support paying parent earns an income of more than $150,000 . In cases where the paying spouse makes more than $150,000 per year, he or she will be ordered to pay the guideline amount for the first $150,000, and the court has discretion whether to impose a higher amount in child support due to the income earned in exess of $150,000.

In split custody arrangements whereby each parent has custody of one or more of the children. Where split custody exists, the amount of child support is determined by calculating the difference between the amount that each would otherwise pay if a child support order were sought against each of them. In situations where parents earn roughly the same income and each is responsible for the support of a child of the marriage, the court can decline to make any order for child support.

In shared custody or access arrangements where a child spends at least 40 percent of the year with each parent. If shared custody is established, then the court is permitted to deviate from the regular guidelines. Section 9 of the Federal Child Support Guidelines addresses this situation and provides that the court should consider the guidelines amount, in addition to the increased costs of shared custody, and the conditions, means, needs and other circumstances of each spouse and of the children. Section 9 promotes flexibility and fairness and leaves discretion with the judge to consider the circumstances.

Where undue hardship arises and the household income of the party asserting undue hardship does not exceed that of the other household . Simply showing it will be hard to make the payments won’t suffice; to meet this standard you must show that the hardship caused by the payments will by excessive, extreme, improper, unreasonable or unjustified.

For help navigating your child support obligations and/or entitlements, please contact your Toronto divorce lawyer.

Child support is calculated mechanically, considering the parents’ salaries and the children’s location. The amount of child support each parent is responsible for is usually calculated using their total gross income according to line 150 of the tax return, how many children are involved, and their domicile.

In cases involving child support, you must typically serve and file financial disclosure. Financial disclosure is providing facts about your finances to the opposing party and the court, including your income, spending, assets such as property and other valuables, as well as debts.

Yes, it may be possible for you to pay for child support directly to your child, but it’s worth noting that this only happens in rare cases. Usually, you’re obligated to pay it to the other parent.

If you’re facing child support issues, your lawyer might refer to the Federal and/or provincial or territorial guidelines to assess what rules would apply to your situation.

In Canada, you’re obliged to pay for child support until the dependent reaches the age of 18 or until the child becomes independent or feels that they have reached a sense of maturity.

There are three main factors to consider in computing child support in Ontario:

  1. The paying parent’s income;
  2. Province where the paying parent is residing;
  3. Number of children the paying parent is supporting;

In addition to the above, the amount of child support from the paying parent may be adjusted based on the parenting agreement. If the parents have a parenting agreement that provides that the child or children are with either parent at least 40% of the time, then both parents’ income may be considered.
Further, the Child Support Guideline in Ontario and the Child Support calculator must be consulted in determining the amount of child support that the paying parent must give.
It must be noted that in Canada there are no States. Instead, there are Provinces. The Province where the paying parent is located will be a determining factor on which table or guideline will be used. i.e. if the paying parent resides in Ontario, then the Child Support Table in Ontario will be used in determining the amount of child support; if the paying parent resides in a different province in Canada, then the Federal Child Support Guideline in the province where the paying parent ordinarily resides will be used in determining the amount of child support; etc.

Parenting arrangements affect child support. Under Section 9 of the Federal Child Support Guidelines:
“Where a spouse exercises a right of access to, or has physical custody of, a child for not less than 40 percent of the time over the course of a year, the amount of the child support order must be determined by taking into account:
(a) the amounts set out in the applicable tables for each of the spouses;
(b) the increased costs of shared custody arrangements; and
(c) the conditions, means, needs and other circumstances of each spouse and of any child for whom support is sought.”

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