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Variation and Recission of Custody and Access Orders

Published: November 5, 2013

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Variation and Recission of Custody and Access Orders

As the best interests of the child is a fluid concept and constantly changing, it is not surprising that custody orders occasionally need to be modified to address these changes. It is important to keep in mind, however, that the fact that a child is growing and maturing does not on its face constitute a material change in circumstances warranting a variation. The court will not consider altering an order simply because the child’s needs have changed due to their older age. This article will address both the process for seeking a variation as well as the legal standard that will need to be met.

Interim Orders

An interim order is a temporary or short-term custody order that generally dictates that the status quo should be maintained until a final order is reached by a negotiated settlement with the absence of lawyers or a final order made by the court. Because these orders are short-term in nature, courts are very reluctant to vary interim custody orders. Interim orders are all about preserving the status quo until trial, and generally are not disturbed. Judges have expressed that unless there is compelling evidence showing the need for change, such as the child being in a dangerous environment, no change in the order should be made. Rather, the parties should abide by the order and use the pending trial as a platform to seek a new custody arrangement.

Although rare, a judge may grant a motion to vary an interim order where there is a substantial change in circumstances that have affected the best interests of the child. Most often this change in circumstances must directly relate to the welfare of the child, and there must be compelling evidence showing the need for immediate action.

Final Orders

The Divorce Act gives courts the authority to vary, rescind, or suspend all or part of a final custody order. After making an application to change your custody order, the judge will check to see if the appropriate legal standards have been met. First, your application must show that a material change in circumstances exists. A material change is defined as:

  1. a change in the condition, means, needs, or circumstances of the child and/or the ability of the parents to meet the needs of the child;
  2. the change materially affects the child; and
  3. the change was either not foreseen or could not have been reasonably contemplated by the judge who made the order that is sought to be varied.

If you wish to have your custody order varied, at the very minimum you must establish the above material change in circumstances. This is true even if you and your former spouse both wish to have the order varied – you must still prove the material change before the judge will entertain your application.

One situation, which nearly always constitutes a material change in circumstances, is where there is ongoing and escalating conflict. For instance, if a custodial parent repeatedly interferes with the other parent’s access privileges, or is saying negative things about the other parent to the child. Parental alienation will also almost always establish a material change in circumstances.

Once you establish this threshold requirement, the judge will start over, so to speak, with regard to your custody arrangement. Rather than starting with the previous order and altering it, the judge will start anew and reassess the parenting arrangements in light of the circumstances. As with all custody orders, the standard that will guide the court’s decision is the best interests of the child.

Even if you are successful in being granted a variation of an existing custody order, the change may not happen overnight. A court may structure the order in a way that allows for gradual transition. Removing the child from one home and placing her in another immediately can often cause problems for the child; a gradual transition can be smoother for the child and result in less emotional turmoil.

Sometimes the court may decide to issue an interim variation order rather than issue a new final order. This type of order allows the court to temporarily alter or suspend all or part of an existing order. The legal standard required before this type of order is issued, is that the applicant must first show the material change of circumstances, and second show that the best interests of the child are served by making an interim order. This action is taken very rarely, as a temporary change can be unsettling to the child.

Although the same standards of material change in circumstance and best interests of the child apply to varying access orders as well as final orders, it is often easier to have an access order varied. With regard to access, changes that would not be material from a custodial standpoint may in fact be material with regard to access. For instance, when a child starts attending school full time the access order may need to be altered to conform to the child’s new schedule.

If a parent seeks to minimize or lessen his or her access to the child, they must show a compelling reason why the normal amount of access is appropriate. Alternatively, if a parent seeks to terminate access, it should only be granted as a last resort. Termination should only occur where the access provides the child with no benefit. This is only appropriate in extreme situations, often where violence, neglect, or severe parental alienation has occurred.

Written by Lisa Gelman

Senior Lawyer

Senior Lawyer Lisa Gelman has over 25 years of family law experience and founded Gelman & Associates to provide strategic legal counsel in family law matters concerning divorce, parenting, separation, and more.

Frequently Asked Questions - child custody & access

It is not uncommon for someone to want to relocate after a divorce. If you still live in the marital residence, the familiar surroundings and memories may be too much for your heart to handle. Or in the process of reinventing yourself post-divorce you may want to take a new job, move closer to your friends and family, or simply wish to start fresh somewhere new. There are many reasons a person may want to move after going through a divorce, however if you have children you will need to think twice before making a big move.

Emotionally, it can be challenging for a child to move to an unfamiliar place. Often, they are most at ease in a familiar environment with access to family and friends. Changing schools, living in a new city or even a new house can be difficult on a child, especially after dealing with the emotional turmoil associated with divorce.

Legally, there are certain implications to relocating away from the current jurisdiction where the children ordinarily reside. Before moving you and the noncustodial parent can negotiate with the absence of a lawyer, a written agreement about the moce and any changes to visitation that may be needed. If you cannot reach an agreement about the move, you then must file an Application/Motion to the court to hear your matter and for a judge to make a decision before you move. Usually the court requires at least 30 days notice to the other parent of your court Application/Motion. It may take longer to reach an agreement with the other parent or get a court order. It is a good idea to give notice of 90 days before the move, as as soon as possible and to consult with a lawyer first. Upon receiving this notice, they can challenge your proposed change of residence or apply for a variation to the existing custody or access orders.

The leading case that sets out the legal test in determining mobility is Gordon vs. Goertz (1996) 2. S.C.R. 27

Similar to any other action involving variation of an existing custody order, the person challenging the relocation has to show that the move will result in a material change in circumstances affecting the child. Once this has been established, a judge will determine the best interests of the child in light of the relevant circumstances. These relevant circumstances include the existing custody and access relationship, the relationship between the child and the custodial parent, the views of the child, and the reason for the proposed change of residence among other circumstances. As with every other custody proceeding, the judges determination will turn on the best interests of the child. The judge’s inquiry is individualized and will involve all factors relevant to the case at hand.

Because mobility has become so easy in today’s society, often separation agreements or custody orders will address relocation and place specific restrictions on changing residences. Non-removal clauses that ban the extra-provincial removal of children without consent of the noncustodial parent. In these cases, the custodial parent who wishes to relocate will have to initiate the action by placing an application with the court.

If you are contemplating a move, you must consider the emotional needs of your child, as well as your former spouse’s right to challenge your relocation. Typically, courts only allow a custodial parent to relocate if the proposed move is in good faith and not intended to frustrate the noncustodial parent’s relationship with the child. Additionally, if a custodial parent relocates, they must be willing to accommodate the noncustodial parent’s access to the child; sometimes this means that the relocating parent will have to pay the additional costs of access.

In sum, if you are a custodial parent, moving isn’t as easy as just loading up the car and hitting the road – but it is still possible.

Yes, but they will need to establish paternity, especially if the father and the mother separate. Here are the ways to establish paternity as recognized by the court:

  • Act of birth
  • Presumption of paternity
  • Uninterrupted possession of status
  • Voluntary declaration

No. Even when the parents are unmarried, divorced, or separated, one parent cannot keep the child from seeing the other unless the court deems it appropriate to the child’s best interests.

Historically, mothers have been more likely to get sole custody of their child in both consent and contested orders, as they are usually the child’s primary caregiver. However, as more mothers also work outside the home, courts could also rule in favor of the father.

The majority of judges strive to make decisions that are in your children’s best interest. Giving full custody to one parent is usually the best option, except in cases with concerns such as child or substance abuse. This typically means keeping in contact with and maintaining relationships with both parents.
You should do everything possible to prepare for the subsequent child custody negotiations, whether you’re a parent seeking full custody or shared custody:
Be honest with yourself about your ability to manage things alone, in terms of practicality, finances, and other factors. You may get the result you want by presenting the strongest case for custody by doing the following:

  • Make a Strategy: If custody is granted, a court will expect you to be ready. Compile thoughtful replies to hypothetical queries posed in court.
  • Speak with people who have gone through the child custody procedure before you. They may provide you advice and tell you what to anticipate.
  • Judges look for proof of a meaningful relationship in addition to making sure you can provide a child’s practical and basic needs. Simply put, be involved in your children’s lives.
  • Continue to pay child support regularly, whether you’re asking the court for full or shared custody. When you start the procedure, you’ll want to make sure you have a strong track record.
  • Keep a detailed log of your visitation schedule. This is a crucial aspect of obtaining child custody. Visitation records reflect how often you see your children under the present arrangements and your dependability, as well as dedication to them.
  • During all child custody hearings, the court will inquire about acceptable living accommodations. Even if you live in a tiny apartment, you should create a unique and secure environment for your child.
  • Courts may determine child custody in part by how you treat your child’s other parent. Being hostile or unpleasant to the other parent makes collaborative decision-making more complicated and can break apart parent-child ties. As a result, judges are more inclined to favor the parent who isn’t behaving badly.
  • While parents typically spend a lot of time thinking about what they believe is best for their children, children’s perspectives are sometimes overlooked. The court will be interested in learning what the children desire and will most likely question them directly at some point throughout the proceedings. You can better inform your decision-making by asking your child what they think.

No. Parenting time and child support are different from each other. While it is a child’s right to be provided with financial support, it is also their right to spend time with their parents. Thus, even if the child support was cancelled the parent formerly supporting can still enjoy parenting time with the child.

“There is no fixed age for when a child can say which parent they want to live with after a divorce. However, by law, a child must be 16 years old to decide on this matter. The exception to this is when there is a court order stating that a child/ren must live with one parent until they turn 17 or 18.

Under certain circumstances, it is possible to legally prevent your child/ren’s father from seeing or contacting them. It may be necessary if he presents a potential danger to your child/ren. If you were never married to the father of your child and there is no court order saying otherwise, you can do anything you want until paternity is confirmed.

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