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Parent Visitation Rights

Published: October 16, 2021

Last Updated: September 15, 2026

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Parent Visitation Rights

In divorce proceedings, the court usually awards child custody to one of the parents. This limits the other parent to only having visitation rights. 

In some cases, both parents are able to reach an agreement by themselves on which one should get custody. This is the more amicable route. 

However, it is also common for the courts to decide when the parents cannot. Either way, the entire process can be gruelling for all parties involved.

The process might be difficult, but you can do something about it. Enlightening yourself could make the situation bearable and help you make better decisions. 

Parenting Visitation Rights Before the New Divorce Act

Canada’s Divorce Act outlines each step of the process, as well as what comes after. Most provinces follow the same guidelines, with the possibility for localized changes.

On March 1, 2021, the new Divorce Act came into effect, which changed a few key terms. Some of the changes involved terminology surrounding parenting arrangements after divorce.

If you’ve received a court order before the new Divorce Act, it is still applicable. You will just have to learn the corresponding terminologies introduced in the new Act. 

What used to be custody is now “decision-making responsibility and parenting time.” Access for the spouse is now “parenting time.” For individuals who are not the spouse, the new Divorce Law has changed “access” into “contact.”

It’s important to learn these new terminologies in case of new policies or an update in the case.

 

Parenting Visitation Rights After the New Divorce Act

The change in terminology, although seemingly minor, is there for a reason. The new definitions focus more on the tasks involved in each role. They clarify each party’s responsibility in caring for the child.  

Divorce can be difficult to go through for everyone, especially the child. Discussing parenting arrangements can help create the best scenarios for child care. It might be a big change to go through, but it helps lessen the pain and confusion for all parties.

Whether the parents or the court reach an agreement, parenting plans help everyone. It sets certain boundaries and responsibilities that put the child’s interests first.

Decision-making responsibility involves the responsibility to make important decisions for the child’s well-being. This can include decisions for your child’s health, education, and culture, among others. 

There are three types considering each parent’s degree of involvement. These are sole, joint, and split decision-making responsibilities. 

In each of these arrangements, every parent has different degrees of responsibility. The judge carefully weighs each parent’s capabilities and willingness to provide. The child’s well-being is always the top priority in every decision.

Do keep in mind that these aren’t rigid systems. You can reach an agreement that works for the family and have your lawyers record it.

Joint Decision-Making Responsibility

Joint decision-making responsibility means both parents share equal decision-making responsibilities. This requires both parents to have an amicable co-parenting relationship despite the divorce

Both parents have to prove their capability to keep a harmonious co-parenting relationship. Otherwise, the court might not grant this type of decision-making responsibility.

Sole Decision-Making Responsibility

In this arrangement, only one parent has the responsibility to make critical decisions for the child’s well-being. 

The other parent still has the right to express suggestions for the child’s well-being. But, the parent with the decision-making responsibility will have the final say.

Split Decision-Making Responsibility

Split decision-making responsibility is not as common as the other arrangements. This is when each parent has sole decision-making responsibility for at least one of their children. 

For example, the father would have sole custody of the son, and the mother would have sole custody of the daughter. This is a pretty rare choice since courts do not usually prefer splitting siblings up. Courts usually apply this when the children are old enough to have a preferred parent.

De Facto Decision-Making Responsibility

This is when you do not have a legal decision-making responsibility arrangement. You and your spouse live separately and your children live with you full-time. But, you did not sign an agreement, nor did the courts decide this for you.

This setup can work if all parties are willing. But, without a legal agreement, it will be more difficult to assert your rights. Before any conflict arises, it might be best to draft an agreement with a family lawyer. You can also take the case to court and ask for a court order.

Considerations for the Parents Visitation Rights 

The new Divorce Law includes the factors that courts must consider. These factors guide each party in finding the best course of action for the child’s welfare.

Best Interests Factors

The court must prioritize the child’s physical, emotional and psychological safety, security and well-being. 

These factors are the first things courts must consider when reaching a decision. These heavily influence the child’s quality of life.

Other Factors

Aside from the primary concerns, the court may also consider other factors. These can include:

  • the child’s needs at their stage of life.
  • parenting and care arrangements for the child, including future plans.
  • the child’s relationships with their parents, relatives, and other key individuals.
  • cultural matters, such as religion, spirituality, and heritage, including Indigenous heritage.

The courts will also consider the parents’ capabilities in caring for the child. This may be through a solo, joint, or split arrangement.

Another critical factor is the history or presence of family violence. The court has to assess whether any family member poses a risk to the child’s welfare. If not, they could determine the parents’ capability to protect the child from violence.

The factors that the court considers aren’t limited to the ones on this list. The primary factors still take precedence. The court may also bring up other factors relevant to the child’s well-being.

Different Types of Parenting Time

Type of Parenting Time Description
Supervised parenting time A third party must be present during each visit. This helps foster a neutral and safe environment for everyone involved. The third party can be a neutral friend, family member, or professional.
Shared parenting time Parents share the amount of time spent with the child. Under this arrangement, the child lives at least 40% of the time with each parent.
Split parenting time This is for families with more than one child. In this setup, each parent has at least one child spending a majority of their time with them.

Spend more time with your kids by negotiating a better parenting time schedule with the help of the expert lawyers from Gelman & Associates.

Contact Gelman & Associates Today

As a parent in this situation, your best course of action would be to consult a lawyer. This is a critical time to set conditions that will help your relationship in the long run. 

Gelman & Associates will gladly help you get more time with your kids. We understand this is a challenging time. We know how much you value your children and your relationship with them.

Our family lawyers will guide you with compassion and understanding while making sure to address your legal needs and defend your rights.

Parenting arrangements can take many different forms. Getting parent visitation rights is critical in maintaining good family relationships. To make sure you approach this in the right way, contact us for a consultation.

Written by Lisa Gelman

Senior Lawyer

Senior Lawyer Lisa Gelman has over 25 years of family law experience and founded Gelman & Associates to provide strategic legal counsel in family law matters concerning divorce, parenting, separation, and more.

Frequently Asked Questions - child custody & access

Ontario law does not specify the age at which a child can decide which parent to live with. At most, the Court may consider the preference of the child but that does not necessarily mean that the Court will act favorably on it. The court will consider the child’s maturity, ability to articulate their desires, and the reasoning behind their views when seeking their opinion.

If a parenting plan is included in your court order under the Divorce Act, the document will be legally binding.

In order to change your child’s last name, you will have to be the child’s parent with legal custody or be the legal guardian of the child. In order to change the child’s last name, you will have to provide notice to anyone who has legal access to the child, and that may include your ex-spouse.

In most cases, the answer is no. However, there can be some exceptions that the mother can build a case upon. These include the father putting the child at risk, non-compliance with the court order, or a history of violence by the father.

Creating a custody plan with a narcissistic ex-partner is a task best left to legal professionals. While there might not be one way to deal with a narcissistic ex, there are things that you can do to turn the tables on a narcissistic co-parent. The best way to prevent problems is to go with no contact or limited contact with your ex-partner and put everything in writing if you must only communicate via email or text message to record statements and harassment.

Let us consider that the “moving away” is relocation and not just a change in residency.

Then, let us qualify that the mother will take your child with her.

If the mother is the primary caregiver of the child, you may oppose the relocation by applying the principles laid down under the Gordon vs. Goertz case. You must present your case strongly as to why potentially cutting your child’s relationship as the primary caregiver is to your child’s best interest. This situation falls under the purview of Section 16.93(2) of the Divorce Act.

If both you and the mother have equal parenting time over your child, the mother of the child has the burden of proof as to why the relocation is for the best interest of your child. This situation falls under the purview of Section 16.93(1) of the Divorce Act.

If there is no Court ordered, approved, or awarded parenting time or separation agreement, as contemplated under Section 16.93(3) of the Divorce Act, the mother has the burden of proof to show that relocation is in the best interest of your child.

Note that even if the burden of proof is not laid upon you, it still recommended that you present a strong opposition to the relocation.

Yes, it is possible for your ex to prevent you from relocating with a child you share, although this will likely plan on your parenting arrangements and decision-making responsibility. If you cannot agree about a relocation, a court will decide based on the child’s best interests.

Generally, you need to provide your ex with 60 days’ written notice of your relocation plan, and you must obtain consent or a court order to move the child. A lawyer can help you navigate this process. Our divorce lawyers will guide you through the application and court order process.

Yes, but they will need to establish paternity, especially if the father and the mother separate. Here are the ways to establish paternity as recognized by the court:

  • Act of birth
  • Presumption of paternity
  • Uninterrupted possession of status
  • Voluntary declaration

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