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Best Ways to Reduce Legal Fees During a Divorce

Published: June 2, 2022

Last Updated: September 9, 2025

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Best Ways to Reduce Legal Fees During a Divorce

If there is one thing that divorcing parties can usually agree on, it’s that divorce is expensive.  This unfortunate truth is well known to family law lawyers and their clients, but there are ways to reduce legal fees during your divorce.  

The most effective way to limit legal fees and the overall expense of divorce is to find a way to settle with your former spouse about the terms of your divorce agreement.  Reaching an out of court agreement on issues like child support, spousal support, the division of assets and your parenting plan will save you not only the emotional burden of prolonged conflict with your ex, but it will save you thousands in legal fees.  

The cost of a divorce is dependent on a number of variables, including location, whether it is uncontested or contested, the length of the divorce process, and whether it goes to trial, and is therefore determined by a case-by-case scenario. In the unfortunate event that your case goes to court, in Ontario, legal fees can go up to and above $50,000.  Therefore, quickly coming to an agreement with your former spouse is the best way to reduce the expenses of divorce.  

While it may seem like the “big” items like child support and parenting would be the most difficult on which to reach an agreement, and they often are, it is not uncommon for property of little sentimental or financial value to become the subject of intense conflict and debate when a couple separates. If you can begin the process with the awareness that this is the kind of thing that drives costs up, you can do your best to prevent negotiations from spiralling into prolonged arguments about things that don’t really matter to you or your former spouse.

In addition to keeping your emotions in check during negotiations, you can also keep expenses down through the use of Mediation, wherein you appoint a neutral third party, a Mediator, to help you reach a settlement with your spouse. Mediation allows ex-spouses to actively engage in the dispute resolution process, and because they can impact the result, they are often more satisfied with the settlement.

Another strategy that can be used to reduce legal fees in a divorce is by “unbundling” the legal services of your family law lawyer.  This means that you hire your lawyer only to help you with the specific areas in which you require assistance.  This may mean they only help you in preparing your financial statement or your parenting agreement, but they do not guide you through the entire divorce process.  

While this approach may work for some couples, others are looking for a more comprehensive handling of their divorce.  Whatever you decide, the lawyers at Gelman & Associates will work with you to minimize conflict using our years of experience in family law.  We will help you achieve the settlement that is best for you and your family by assisting you in keeping your divorce out of the court’s hands and placing the decision-making with those that know you and your family best, you and your spouse. Have questions? Contact us today! 

Written by Lisa Gelman

Senior Lawyer

Senior Lawyer Lisa Gelman has over 25 years of family law experience and founded Gelman & Associates to provide strategic legal counsel in family law matters concerning divorce, parenting, separation, and more.

Frequently Asked Questions - divorce & separation

If you or your spouse are not in Canada, you can not get a divorce. However, you can end your marriage under the Civil Marriage Act. You can only end your marriage in Canada and not another country because your marriage is only valid in Canada.

Yes, you can date while separated in Canada. However, there is a legal implication to that. If the timing of your new relationship comes into question during your divorce, your relationship may be considered as an affair or adultery.

Yes. Our legal services are available in person, online, and over the phone. In addition, although our main office is located in Toronto, we have over 8 additional satellite offices located throughout central, southern, western, and eastern Ontario to serve family law clients across the province.

If you are litigating your matter, social media posts made by your spouse or partner may be relevant, especially if they contradict what your spouse is claiming in his or her pleadings.

For example, if a spouse is claiming financial hardship, a Facebook post that shows that spouse going on an expensive trip or posing with an expensive car can undermine such claim and potentially affect that party’s credibility in court if presented as evidence on a motion or at trial.

Further to photograph-based posts, statements that are made on social media by one party can be relevant if said posts (i) are related to the litigation, to issues of parenting and/or (b) contradict statements that were made by the party in his or her pleadings. For example, if a party is attempting to establish that he or she is an appropriate custodial parent, then recent social media posts about extensive partying and drug use made by that party may be relevant in court, as they may speak to that party’s fitness when it comes to appropriate supervision of a child in his or her care.

Yes, you can separate from your spouse. Separation does not have to lead to divorce. However, if you plan to remarry, you must file for divorce after one year of separation. Also, you may want to consider that if you just leave, your spouse may file for spousal support or child support.

It is advised however that before leaving, you try to have a separation agreement with your spouse.

Divorce can be a difficult decision to make, especially if you’re unsure if your partner will sign the petition. However, a divorce does not require your partner’s consent. Although it may be a long process if your partner doesn’t comply, they will not be able to stop you indefinitely.

The only ground for a divorce in Canada’s Divorce Act is marriage breakdown. This could include spousal infidelity, although infidelity alone could be difficult and emotionally taxing to prove in court.

You are not legally required to retain a lawyer to apply for divorce. However, a divorce application may involve important questions about parenting, support, property and procedural requirements. Independent legal advice can help you understand how a proposed agreement or court application may affect you.

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