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Can Spouses Be Awarded Damages for Spousal Abuse and/or Domestic Violence During a Marriage?

Published: January 19, 2023

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Can Spouses Be Awarded Damages for Spousal Abuse and/or Domestic Violence During a Marriage?

Written by: Annette Nyland 

The short answer is yes, but the decision allowing spouses to be awarded damages for abuse and/or domestic violence is being appealed. The Divorce Act was amended in March 2021 and the definition of family violence now includes “a pattern of coercive and controlling behaviour” and conduct that “causes the plaintiff to fear for their own safety or that of another person”. 

Justice Renu Mandhane, an Ontario Superior Court Justice, awarded damages in the amount of $150,000.00 for spousal abuse to a man’s ex-wife on February 28, 2022. This is the first time a Canadian court has recognized the civil tort of family violence. The case is Ahluwalia v. Ahluwalia 2022 ONSC 1303.

WHAT HAPPENED IN AHLUWALIA V. AHLUWALIA 

Mr. A’s ex-wife, Ms. A, suffered physical abuse, coercion and control during the parties’ 16-year marriage at the hands of Mr. A. Ms. A. asked the court for a claim for “general, exemplary and punitive damages for the physical and mental abuse suffered by the wife at the hands of the husband.” 

THE TEST TO MEET FOR THE TORT OF FAMILY VIOLENCE 

At trial, Justice Mandhane found that there is a need for the tort of family violence in cases where there was a “long-term pattern of violence, coercion and control”. The victim must prove that the offending party:

  1. Intended to engage in violent or threatening behaviour;
  2. Engaged in behaviour that was calculated with a pattern of coercive and controlling behaviour; or
  3. Caused the victim to fear for their safety or the safety of another person knowing with substantial certainty that their behaviour would cause the victim to be subjectively fearful.

Once any of these three elements are proven, then the offending party is deemed to be liable in committing the tortious act of family violence. It is also important to note that physical violence is not a requirement for the new tort of family violence. It can be claimed if there is emotional abuse as well. 

EMOTIONAL ABUSE AND/OR FINANCIAL ABUSE CAN COUNT AS FAMILY VIOLENCE 

Justice Mandhane stated:

“While the tort of family violence will overlap with existing torts, there are unique elements that justify recognition of a unique cause of action. I agree with the Mother that the existing torts do not fully capture the cumulative harm associated with the pattern of coercion and control that lays at the heart of family violence cases and which creates the conditions of fear and helplessness. These patters can be cyclical and subtle, and often go beyond assault and battery to include complicated and prolonged psychological and financial abuse.”

Ontario is a no-fault province when it comes to family law, however, this ruling, could shift the no-fault premise of family law. The ruling has been appealed and family law lawyers are waiting to see what a higher court decides on this issue.

Disclaimer – This article contains legal information, based on a court ruling, that is under appeal. If you require legal advice, based on the particular facts of your matter, please contact our office to book a complimentary 30-minute consultation. 

Written by Lisa Gelman

Senior Lawyer

Senior Lawyer Lisa Gelman has over 25 years of family law experience and founded Gelman & Associates to provide strategic legal counsel in family law matters concerning divorce, parenting, separation, and more.

Frequently Asked Questions - family violence & domestic orders

If the person doesn’t feel comfortable leaving, you can still assist them in developing a safety plan that they can use if the violence occurs again or if they want to escape later. Simply creating a plan can assist them in seeing whatever tasks are required and help them psychologically prepare themselves.

While domestic violence is often linked to physical abuse and violent behavior, emotional abuse can also constitute domestic violance. In fact, domestic violence includes a broad range of abuse, such as physical, sexual, psychological, and verbal.

Physical violence, sexual violence, emotional violence, psychological violence, spiritual violence, cultural violence, verbal abuse, and financial abuse are among the types of violence anyone can experience within a marriage.

Photographs of the scene and injuries, obtaining medical evidence of any injuries, a recording of the emergency response call, and talking to family and friends are all considered essential evidence in a domestic violence case.

A batterer is someone who physically abuses a kid, another person, or a spouse.

Yes, there they can. Domestic violence against males can take many forms, including physical, emotional, verbal, and sexual assault. Men are abused significantly more frequently than you may think in heterosexual and same-sex relationships. It affects males of all ages and occupations, from many cultures and walks of life.

While individuals have the ability to change, they must have a strong desire to change and be devoted to all parts of change in order to do it, and even then, it’s much easier said than done. Only a small fraction of abusers actually change their habits.

It is important not to say anything that makes the victim feel like it is their fault or like they could have stopped it if they had done something differently. Do not downplay their story by telling them that many people in their situation have problems. Do not interrogate them as to why they never left the relationship earlier. Do not ask what they did to provoke the abuser or tell them that there are two sides to a story. Saying these types of things will not help the recovery or escape process. You will most likely only be affirming the abuser’s threats and manipulation tactics.

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