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False Allegations During Divorce Proceedings

Published: May 5, 2015

Last Updated: March 24, 2026

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False Allegations During Divorce Proceedings
False Allegations During Divorce Proceedings

Unfortunately, from time to time, when a marriage breaks down, some spouses take the dramatic step of making false allegations during divorce proceedings against the other spouse. Particularly during highly contested custody battles.

To be sure, domestic violence is a terrible crime and continues to be a significant societal concern right across Canada. Women, men and children are affected by domestic violence either directly by being the intended target of the abuse or by bearing witness to the violence.

Although domestic violence continues to be an under-reported crime, the jails in this country are crowded with legitimate perpetrators of domestic violence. However there are also those who, for a variety of reasons, have been falsely accused.

Sometimes when couples decide to divorce, there are many emotions that are experienced all at once. Anger and rage often take hold of one or both spouses, particular if a deep bitterness lingers. One spouse may make false allegations of domestic abuse against the other spouse for a variety of reasons. Perhaps they wish to gain a more favourable outcome in a contested custody battle or they may hope to manipulate their spouse in some other way for their own gain.

It is important to note that, if one spouse calls 911 claiming domestic abuse, the police have no discretion – they must charge the alleged abuser.

When one spouse has been falsely accused of, arrested for and charged with domestic abuse, their character is automatically scrutinized in any ongoing or future court action. They may be subjected to mental health assessments and even court ordered anger management programs. All while coping with the confusion and emotional trauma of reconciling divorce proceedings with this perceived injustice. In addition, if children are involved, such accusations have the potential to taint relationships with the accused parent. By contrast, the accuser may be viewed more favourably since most of us detest abusers and lend support to victims.

This additional facet to a divorce proceeding will undoubtedly increase the time and expenses required to resolve all related matters, particularly for the alleged abuser who is also forced to clear his or her name.

In the absence of any witnesses, prosecution of false allegations are difficult to prove/disprove. This results in the charges sticking to the accused and therefore very little or no punitive disincentives for anyone contemplating or making bogus claims.

It should be pointed out that there are times when a strategy of leveling false allegations against a spouse backfires, particularly as evidence emerges that invalidates the claims. In cases such as these, both the spectre of the untrue allegations and the attendant negative characterization of the spouse making these allegations, become powerful ammunition for both the opposing party and their lawyer.

False allegations certainly take their toll on everyone involved. Unfortunately, the prevalence of false allegations also perilously taints the credibility of violent assaults that are actually taking place.

To ensure that your legal rights are defended and protected, please call Gelman & Associates to book your private consultation at (844) 736-0200.

 

Written by Lisa Gelman

Senior Lawyer

Senior Lawyer Lisa Gelman has over 25 years of family law experience and founded Gelman & Associates to provide strategic legal counsel in family law matters concerning divorce, parenting, separation, and more.

Frequently Asked Questions - divorce & separation

If you or your spouse are not in Canada, you can not get a divorce. However, you can end your marriage under the Civil Marriage Act. You can only end your marriage in Canada and not another country because your marriage is only valid in Canada.

Yes, you can date while separated in Canada. However, there is a legal implication to that. If the timing of your new relationship comes into question during your divorce, your relationship may be considered as an affair or adultery.

Yes. Our legal services are available in person, online, and over the phone. In addition, although our main office is located in Toronto, we have over 8 additional satellite offices located throughout central, southern, western, and eastern Ontario to serve family law clients across the province.

If you are litigating your matter, social media posts made by your spouse or partner may be relevant, especially if they contradict what your spouse is claiming in his or her pleadings.

For example, if a spouse is claiming financial hardship, a Facebook post that shows that spouse going on an expensive trip or posing with an expensive car can undermine such claim and potentially affect that party’s credibility in court if presented as evidence on a motion or at trial.

Further to photograph-based posts, statements that are made on social media by one party can be relevant if said posts (i) are related to the litigation, to issues of parenting and/or (b) contradict statements that were made by the party in his or her pleadings. For example, if a party is attempting to establish that he or she is an appropriate custodial parent, then recent social media posts about extensive partying and drug use made by that party may be relevant in court, as they may speak to that party’s fitness when it comes to appropriate supervision of a child in his or her care.

Yes, you can separate from your spouse. Separation does not have to lead to divorce. However, if you plan to remarry, you must file for divorce after one year of separation. Also, you may want to consider that if you just leave, your spouse may file for spousal support or child support.

It is advised however that before leaving, you try to have a separation agreement with your spouse.

Divorce can be a difficult decision to make, especially if you’re unsure if your partner will sign the petition. However, a divorce does not require your partner’s consent. Although it may be a long process if your partner doesn’t comply, they will not be able to stop you indefinitely.

The only ground for a divorce in Canada’s Divorce Act is marriage breakdown. This could include spousal infidelity, although infidelity alone could be difficult and emotionally taxing to prove in court.

You are not legally required to retain a lawyer to apply for divorce. However, a divorce application may involve important questions about parenting, support, property and procedural requirements. Independent legal advice can help you understand how a proposed agreement or court application may affect you.

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