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Variation and Recission of Custody and Access Orders

Published: November 5, 2013

Last Updated: September 8, 2025

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Variation and Recission of Custody and Access Orders

As the best interests of the child is a fluid concept and constantly changing, it is not surprising that custody orders occasionally need to be modified to address these changes. It is important to keep in mind, however, that the fact that a child is growing and maturing does not on its face constitute a material change in circumstances warranting a variation. The court will not consider altering an order simply because the child’s needs have changed due to their older age. This article will address both the process for seeking a variation as well as the legal standard that will need to be met.

Interim Orders

An interim order is a temporary or short-term custody order that generally dictates that the status quo should be maintained until a final order is reached by a negotiated settlement with the absence of lawyers or a final order made by the court. Because these orders are short-term in nature, courts are very reluctant to vary interim custody orders. Interim orders are all about preserving the status quo until trial, and generally are not disturbed. Judges have expressed that unless there is compelling evidence showing the need for change, such as the child being in a dangerous environment, no change in the order should be made. Rather, the parties should abide by the order and use the pending trial as a platform to seek a new custody arrangement.

Although rare, a judge may grant a motion to vary an interim order where there is a substantial change in circumstances that have affected the best interests of the child. Most often this change in circumstances must directly relate to the welfare of the child, and there must be compelling evidence showing the need for immediate action.

Final Orders

The Divorce Act gives courts the authority to vary, rescind, or suspend all or part of a final custody order. After making an application to change your custody order, the judge will check to see if the appropriate legal standards have been met. First, your application must show that a material change in circumstances exists. A material change is defined as:

  1. a change in the condition, means, needs, or circumstances of the child and/or the ability of the parents to meet the needs of the child;
  2. the change materially affects the child; and
  3. the change was either not foreseen or could not have been reasonably contemplated by the judge who made the order that is sought to be varied.

If you wish to have your custody order varied, at the very minimum you must establish the above material change in circumstances. This is true even if you and your former spouse both wish to have the order varied – you must still prove the material change before the judge will entertain your application.

One situation, which nearly always constitutes a material change in circumstances, is where there is ongoing and escalating conflict. For instance, if a custodial parent repeatedly interferes with the other parent’s access privileges, or is saying negative things about the other parent to the child. Parental alienation will also almost always establish a material change in circumstances.

Once you establish this threshold requirement, the judge will start over, so to speak, with regard to your custody arrangement. Rather than starting with the previous order and altering it, the judge will start anew and reassess the parenting arrangements in light of the circumstances. As with all custody orders, the standard that will guide the court’s decision is the best interests of the child.

Even if you are successful in being granted a variation of an existing custody order, the change may not happen overnight. A court may structure the order in a way that allows for gradual transition. Removing the child from one home and placing her in another immediately can often cause problems for the child; a gradual transition can be smoother for the child and result in less emotional turmoil.

Sometimes the court may decide to issue an interim variation order rather than issue a new final order. This type of order allows the court to temporarily alter or suspend all or part of an existing order. The legal standard required before this type of order is issued, is that the applicant must first show the material change of circumstances, and second show that the best interests of the child are served by making an interim order. This action is taken very rarely, as a temporary change can be unsettling to the child.

Although the same standards of material change in circumstance and best interests of the child apply to varying access orders as well as final orders, it is often easier to have an access order varied. With regard to access, changes that would not be material from a custodial standpoint may in fact be material with regard to access. For instance, when a child starts attending school full time the access order may need to be altered to conform to the child’s new schedule.

If a parent seeks to minimize or lessen his or her access to the child, they must show a compelling reason why the normal amount of access is appropriate. Alternatively, if a parent seeks to terminate access, it should only be granted as a last resort. Termination should only occur where the access provides the child with no benefit. This is only appropriate in extreme situations, often where violence, neglect, or severe parental alienation has occurred.

Written by Lisa Gelman

Senior Lawyer

Senior Lawyer Lisa Gelman has over 25 years of family law experience and founded Gelman & Associates to provide strategic legal counsel in family law matters concerning divorce, parenting, separation, and more.

Frequently Asked Questions - child custody & access

Ontario law does not specify the age at which a child can decide which parent to live with. At most, the Court may consider the preference of the child but that does not necessarily mean that the Court will act favorably on it. The court will consider the child’s maturity, ability to articulate their desires, and the reasoning behind their views when seeking their opinion.

If a parenting plan is included in your court order under the Divorce Act, the document will be legally binding.

In order to change your child’s last name, you will have to be the child’s parent with legal custody or be the legal guardian of the child. In order to change the child’s last name, you will have to provide notice to anyone who has legal access to the child, and that may include your ex-spouse.

In most cases, the answer is no. However, there can be some exceptions that the mother can build a case upon. These include the father putting the child at risk, non-compliance with the court order, or a history of violence by the father.

Creating a custody plan with a narcissistic ex-partner is a task best left to legal professionals. While there might not be one way to deal with a narcissistic ex, there are things that you can do to turn the tables on a narcissistic co-parent. The best way to prevent problems is to go with no contact or limited contact with your ex-partner and put everything in writing if you must only communicate via email or text message to record statements and harassment.

Let us consider that the “moving away” is relocation and not just a change in residency.

Then, let us qualify that the mother will take your child with her.

If the mother is the primary caregiver of the child, you may oppose the relocation by applying the principles laid down under the Gordon vs. Goertz case. You must present your case strongly as to why potentially cutting your child’s relationship as the primary caregiver is to your child’s best interest. This situation falls under the purview of Section 16.93(2) of the Divorce Act.

If both you and the mother have equal parenting time over your child, the mother of the child has the burden of proof as to why the relocation is for the best interest of your child. This situation falls under the purview of Section 16.93(1) of the Divorce Act.

If there is no Court ordered, approved, or awarded parenting time or separation agreement, as contemplated under Section 16.93(3) of the Divorce Act, the mother has the burden of proof to show that relocation is in the best interest of your child.

Note that even if the burden of proof is not laid upon you, it still recommended that you present a strong opposition to the relocation.

Yes, it is possible for your ex to prevent you from relocating with a child you share, although this will likely plan on your parenting arrangements and decision-making responsibility. If you cannot agree about a relocation, a court will decide based on the child’s best interests.

Generally, you need to provide your ex with 60 days’ written notice of your relocation plan, and you must obtain consent or a court order to move the child. A lawyer can help you navigate this process. Our divorce lawyers will guide you through the application and court order process.

Yes, but they will need to establish paternity, especially if the father and the mother separate. Here are the ways to establish paternity as recognized by the court:

  • Act of birth
  • Presumption of paternity
  • Uninterrupted possession of status
  • Voluntary declaration

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