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What a CDFA Can Do For You

Published: December 6, 2016

Last Updated: September 8, 2025

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What a CDFA Can Do For You

Divorce is not an easy process.  At the end of the day, opposing parties may emerge relieved but no one is ever really happy with the final result.  There is always a sense of loss on both sides, emotionally and especially financially.

Many clients are concerned about the standard of living that they can maintain on their own.  Will s/he be able to keep their home?  What effect will the divorce have on his/her retirement plans?  How will s/he be able to pay spousal support and live a reasonable lifestyle?  That’s where I can help.  My job as a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA) is to help divorcing clients and their legal representatives to understand how the financial negotiations made today will impact the client’s financial future.

As a Certified Financial Planner (CFP) as well as a CDFA, I have intensive training on financial planning throughout a client’s life cycle with a particular emphasis on the unsettling nature of divorce.  I take direction from the legal team and use the proposed support and negotiated asset division to project how the client will fare on his/her own.  In the vast majority of cases, both divorcing clients will experience a reduction in their standards of living immediately after a divorce.  However, by making well-informed decisions, this challenge can be temporary and the divorcing parties can begin to rebuild their net worth.

A CDFA can help educate clients on the settlements being negotiated.  An informed client will make better choices when it comes to giving their legal team with direction.  For example, I am commonly called upon to do projections to help a client understand whether the matrimonial home or a pension is worth fighting for.  For some, maintaining the matrimonial home will have a benign affect on his/her financial position.  For others, the cash flow burden of servicing a mortgage and maintaining a home is more than their salary and support payments can bear.  Learning whether an asset will weaken his/her financial position upon divorce is important for the client to know – allowing the him/her client to either rethink their position or to make other concessions to realize the goal.

A legal team whose work is combined with CDFA analyses can have an extremely positive impact on a client’s divorce proceedings.  Lawyers who are open to working with a CDFA have much to gain, including an expert opinion to assess important financial information.  Having a CDFA on your team from the beginning of the divorce proceedings allows for easier gathering, organizing and presenting of information thus making resolutions easier to reach.  This is especially true of divorces that are negotiated by collaborative means as the financial neutral can do projections for both parties in an impartial manner.  Resolutions are often swifter, less acrimonious and costs can be shared between parties.  In the absence of a CDFA’s analysis, clients may sacrifice or damage their financial future well being for short term satisfaction without even knowing that they did so.

Divorce or separation can undo the best-laid financial plans.  Ideally, the combination of an intelligent and focused client, superior legal expertise and a personal finance expert trained in divorce will produce a resolution that will enable the client to maintain a reasonable standard of living and build a new financial future.

Monique Madan, CFP, FMA, CDFA(TM) Professional has years of experience working with individuals, couples and families and has acquired a unique and sought-after perspective on financial planning. Her mandate focuses on helping those who are ill-prepared and over-extended to ensure that they can take care of their families and sleep better at night. To contact Monique, please visit: www.moniquemadan.com

Written by Lisa Gelman

Senior Lawyer

Senior Lawyer Lisa Gelman has over 25 years of family law experience and founded Gelman & Associates to provide strategic legal counsel in family law matters concerning divorce, parenting, separation, and more.

Frequently Asked Questions - divorce & separation

If you or your spouse are not in Canada, you can not get a divorce. However, you can end your marriage under the Civil Marriage Act. You can only end your marriage in Canada and not another country because your marriage is only valid in Canada.

Yes, you can date while separated in Canada. However, there is a legal implication to that. If the timing of your new relationship comes into question during your divorce, your relationship may be considered as an affair or adultery.

Yes. Our legal services are available in person, online, and over the phone. In addition, although our main office is located in Toronto, we have over 8 additional satellite offices located throughout central, southern, western, and eastern Ontario to serve family law clients across the province.

If you are litigating your matter, social media posts made by your spouse or partner may be relevant, especially if they contradict what your spouse is claiming in his or her pleadings.

For example, if a spouse is claiming financial hardship, a Facebook post that shows that spouse going on an expensive trip or posing with an expensive car can undermine such claim and potentially affect that party’s credibility in court if presented as evidence on a motion or at trial.

Further to photograph-based posts, statements that are made on social media by one party can be relevant if said posts (i) are related to the litigation, to issues of parenting and/or (b) contradict statements that were made by the party in his or her pleadings. For example, if a party is attempting to establish that he or she is an appropriate custodial parent, then recent social media posts about extensive partying and drug use made by that party may be relevant in court, as they may speak to that party’s fitness when it comes to appropriate supervision of a child in his or her care.

Yes, you can separate from your spouse. Separation does not have to lead to divorce. However, if you plan to remarry, you must file for divorce after one year of separation. Also, you may want to consider that if you just leave, your spouse may file for spousal support or child support.

It is advised however that before leaving, you try to have a separation agreement with your spouse.

Divorce can be a difficult decision to make, especially if you’re unsure if your partner will sign the petition. However, a divorce does not require your partner’s consent. Although it may be a long process if your partner doesn’t comply, they will not be able to stop you indefinitely.

The only ground for a divorce in Canada’s Divorce Act is marriage breakdown. This could include spousal infidelity, although infidelity alone could be difficult and emotionally taxing to prove in court.

You are not legally required to retain a lawyer to apply for divorce. However, a divorce application may involve important questions about parenting, support, property and procedural requirements. Independent legal advice can help you understand how a proposed agreement or court application may affect you.

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