When you’re used to splitting the cost of living with a partner, it can be difficult to suddenly find yourself single again and struggling to pay your bills. Single people often find that the ratio of their income to their expenses is much different than it is when married or living with someone. Fortunately, there …
Read MoreIf you have gone through a divorce or are in the midst of one, you have probably spent some time getting rid of mementos from your previous marriage. You’re ready to move on, and you don’t have the mental and emotional room to keep dredging up the past. It’s easy to get rid of the …
Read MoreI have been on the internet recently, looking at the number of resources available to family law clients. As with anything on the internet, some are good and some are bad. Some contain accurate information and some do not. Some are a neutral explanation of the law and others are a soapbox. Being an informed …
Read MoreA wedding ring, when it is first purchased, is a symbol of love and passion. But what happens when the symbolism behind it is no longer meaningful? Going through a divorce often means getting rid of some of your possessions, but what should you do with your wedding ring? The fact that it is an …
Read MoreIf you’re on the emotional rollercoaster that is divorce, you may feel too distracted to worry about your future financial situation or to prepare for meeting with a lawyer. There are some things, though, that you really shouldn’t leave for the last minute. Understanding your income and debts now puts you in an advantageous position, …
Read MoreIt’s lonely to go through the divorce process, and sometimes people find themselves eager to start dating before everything is final. After all, a divorce can do some serious damage to your self-esteem, and it may sound like a good idea to find someone else to reaffirm your self-worth. However, if you think about the …
Read MoreDivorce is hard on kids of all ages. Common sense tells us that we need to be supportive and extra attentive to our children during periods of change and upheaval in their lives. You know your child best. You know how to comfort them and parent with kindness and compassion, but it may be difficult …
Read MoreSo, school is almost out. My son finishes today at noon. He is one of the many kids counting down the days until he leaves for overnight camp – a countdown that began in September. If you are separated or divorced, here are a few pointers on how to make it easier for your son …
Read MoreWhen you decide to get divorced, you can’t avoid telling others about it. You have to tell your family and friends so they can support you during the process. You have to share the news with your employer so you can change your benefits. Your creditors will also want to hear about it, so they …
Read MoreWhen you think of “divorce”, what comes to mind? I conducted an unscientific and informal poll which asked that very question. I noticed many responses were along the lines of “lawyers”, “expensive”, “stressful” and “financially debilitating”. It doesn’t have to be this way. While taking steps to separate two lives that may include children and …
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