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I’m Pregnant and Going Through a Divorce

Published: May 15, 2013

Last Updated: September 12, 2025

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I’m Pregnant and Going Through a Divorce

It happens more frequently than you might think: couples expecting a child make the decision to end their marriages. If you’re pregnant and going through a divorce, you might find it helpful to know that you’re not the only one. Your Mississauga divorce lawyer has probably worked with other women in situations like yours, so remember that it’s okay to ask questions and it’s okay to feel overwhelmed.

What to Ask Your Mississauga Divorce Lawyer

Since your divorce will probably involve a child custody agreement, you’ll need to discuss your options with your Mississauga divorce lawyer. Psychologists suggest that both parents’ involvement in a child’s life can be beneficial, but very young infants may have a hard time adjusting to back-and-forth schedules, particularly if you are breastfeeding, co-sleeping at one house but not the other, or have different parenting styles (such as the intention to use attachment parenting or allow your baby to “cry it out”).

Your Mississauga divorce lawyer can help you calculate the child support you may be entitled to receive and determine whether you’re eligible to receive spousal support.

Dealing with the Emotions that Stem from Divorce

During your pregnancy, you might experience the same moodiness that all expectant moms do—but yours is compounded by the stress of the divorce. It’s okay to feel like this isn’t fair and that it shouldn’t be happening to you; in fact, that’s a normal reaction for any woman (especially a pregnant mom).

Remember that too much stress isn’t good for you or your baby and that you need as much rest as you can get. If you’re up to it, you can work on relaxation techniques, use meditation or ask your Mississauga divorce lawyer for a referral to a local therapist who’s trained to work with women in situations like yours.

What Warrants an Immediate Call to Your Lawyer?

If your ex threatens you or becomes violent, call the police and get to a safe location immediately; once you’re safe, call your Mississauga divorce lawyer right away. Your lawyer might be able to help you stay safe through the legal system, and he or she might be able to point you toward helpful resources for victims of domestic violence.

You should also call or email your Mississauga divorce lawyer as soon as possible if you discover your spouse is seeing someone else, he fails to pick up your kids when he’s committed to doing so or harasses you in any way.

Being pregnant is no picnic during divorce, but remember: you’re strong enough to be a mom, so you can certainly handle anything your ex throws your way. Your Mississauga divorce lawyer is there to help you through the legal side of your case, and in the meantime, he or she can help you get the emotional support you need.

Written by Lisa Gelman

Senior Lawyer

Senior Lawyer Lisa Gelman has over 25 years of family law experience and founded Gelman & Associates to provide strategic legal counsel in family law matters concerning divorce, parenting, separation, and more.

Frequently Asked Questions - divorce & separation

If you or your spouse are not in Canada, you can not get a divorce. However, you can end your marriage under the Civil Marriage Act. You can only end your marriage in Canada and not another country because your marriage is only valid in Canada.

Yes, you can date while separated in Canada. However, there is a legal implication to that. If the timing of your new relationship comes into question during your divorce, your relationship may be considered as an affair or adultery.

Yes. Our legal services are available in person, online, and over the phone. In addition, although our main office is located in Toronto, we have over 8 additional satellite offices located throughout central, southern, western, and eastern Ontario to serve family law clients across the province.

If you are litigating your matter, social media posts made by your spouse or partner may be relevant, especially if they contradict what your spouse is claiming in his or her pleadings.

For example, if a spouse is claiming financial hardship, a Facebook post that shows that spouse going on an expensive trip or posing with an expensive car can undermine such claim and potentially affect that party’s credibility in court if presented as evidence on a motion or at trial.

Further to photograph-based posts, statements that are made on social media by one party can be relevant if said posts (i) are related to the litigation, to issues of parenting and/or (b) contradict statements that were made by the party in his or her pleadings. For example, if a party is attempting to establish that he or she is an appropriate custodial parent, then recent social media posts about extensive partying and drug use made by that party may be relevant in court, as they may speak to that party’s fitness when it comes to appropriate supervision of a child in his or her care.

Yes, you can separate from your spouse. Separation does not have to lead to divorce. However, if you plan to remarry, you must file for divorce after one year of separation. Also, you may want to consider that if you just leave, your spouse may file for spousal support or child support.

It is advised however that before leaving, you try to have a separation agreement with your spouse.

Divorce can be a difficult decision to make, especially if you’re unsure if your partner will sign the petition. However, a divorce does not require your partner’s consent. Although it may be a long process if your partner doesn’t comply, they will not be able to stop you indefinitely.

The only ground for a divorce in Canada’s Divorce Act is marriage breakdown. This could include spousal infidelity, although infidelity alone could be difficult and emotionally taxing to prove in court.

You are not legally required to retain a lawyer to apply for divorce. However, a divorce application may involve important questions about parenting, support, property and procedural requirements. Independent legal advice can help you understand how a proposed agreement or court application may affect you.

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