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Shared Custody: 40% Rule

Published: December 20, 2013

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Shared Custody: 40% Rule

What Is Shared Parenting Time?

Under the Divorce Act, shared parenting time is an arrangement where a child would spend at least 40 percent of their time with each parent. This was formerly referred to as a shared custody arrangement or a shared custody situation.

Shared parenting time is different from decision-making responsibility. A custodial parent could have sole decision-making responsibility while still sharing parenting time with the other parent. Likewise, parents can share decision-making responsibility even if one parent has custody of the child less than 40% of the time. 

How Does 60/40 Schedule Work?

While a 50/50 parenting arrangement would be ideal, it is not always feasible due to other responsibilities, budgets, or scheduling conflicts. A 60/40 schedule is the next best thing, as it provides each parent with a roughly similar amount of time without undue hardship to any party involved.

To make this arrangement work, it’s important that both parents get along, are capable of cooperating with one another, and can provide roughly a similar amount of support during their time with the child.

Some common parenting arrangements include the long weekend schedule, the 4-3 schedule, the 2-2-5-5 schedule, and the 2-2-3 schedule. 

  • Long weekend/Extended weekend schedule. In this arrangement, Parent 1 has the right of access to the child from Monday morning to Friday early afternoon. Parent 2 then spends time with the child from Friday afternoon to Monday morning. In this arrangement, Parent 2 usually drops the child off at school or daycare on Monday mornings and picks them up on Fridays.
  • 4-3 schedule. For this arrangement, Parent 1 has the child for four nights of the week, and Parent 2 has the kid for three nights. It is quite similar to the long weekend schedule, except that both parents could spend part of the weekend with the child, depending on the decided schedule.
  • 2-2-5-5 schedule. Each parent alternates spending two days and five days respectively with their child. Parent 1 spends time with the child for two days, and then Parent 2 does the same. Parent 1 then spends five days with their child, and then Parent 2 gets their five days.
  • 2-2-3 schedule. This arrangement is similar to the 2-2-5-5 schedule but with alternating weekends. Parent 1 spends two days with the child, and then Parent 2 gets two days. Then, the child goes back to Parent 1 for three days, and the schedule repeats with alternating parents.

Child Support and the 40% Rule

Calculating the amount of child support owed will differ if you and your former partner are sharing parenting time. The law in Ontario provides that shared parenting exists where a parent exercises access or has physical custody for no less than 40 percent of the time over the course of a year. This works out to be 146 days or 3504 hours in one year. In these cases, the Federal Child Support Guidelines permit a court to deviate from the usual guidelines.

Deciding whether this 40% threshold has been met can be challenging. Some judges prefer a strict mathematical approach and count each parent’s custody or access by the hour. Other judges prefer a more functional approach. To complicate the issue further, a parent who has access for part of the day (such as midweek evening access) doesn’t get credit for the entire day when determining whether shared child custody exists.

However, once the 40% threshold is met, there is no exact science to determine how much child support is owed. Meeting the threshold merely allows the court to deviate from the Child Support Guidelines. For example, if one parent meets the 40% threshold, and the other parent has the child for 60% of the time, it should not be assumed that the parent who has the children 60% of the time necessarily has higher costs than the parent who has established that he or she has custody 40% of the time.

The court will consider the amounts set forth in Section 9 of the Federal Child Support Guidelines, the increased costs of shared custody, and the conditions, means, needs, and other circumstances of each parent and of the children. Section 9 promotes flexibility and fairness and leaves discretion to the judge to consider the circumstances. After weighing the evidence, the court could ultimately decide that no deviation is necessary and order the child support payment amount pursuant to the guidelines – but when shared custody exists the court can order an amount different than prescribed in the guidelines.

It is worth noting that the Supreme Court of Canada has determined that a child should not suffer a noticeable decline in their standard of living from a change in the parenting regime. In other words, if there is a change in decision-making responsibility and child support must be re-calculated, the court will prevent a drastic reduction in child support.

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Determining the appropriate child support amount when shared parenting is at play can be challenging. If you think you meet this 40% threshold, speak to one of the experienced lawyers at Gelman and Associates to see if you might qualify for a reduction in child support.

Written by Lisa Gelman

Senior Lawyer

Senior Lawyer Lisa Gelman has over 25 years of family law experience and founded Gelman & Associates to provide strategic legal counsel in family law matters concerning divorce, parenting, separation, and more.

Frequently Asked Questions - child custody & access

It is not uncommon for someone to want to relocate after a divorce. If you still live in the marital residence, the familiar surroundings and memories may be too much for your heart to handle. Or in the process of reinventing yourself post-divorce you may want to take a new job, move closer to your friends and family, or simply wish to start fresh somewhere new. There are many reasons a person may want to move after going through a divorce, however if you have children you will need to think twice before making a big move.

Emotionally, it can be challenging for a child to move to an unfamiliar place. Often, they are most at ease in a familiar environment with access to family and friends. Changing schools, living in a new city or even a new house can be difficult on a child, especially after dealing with the emotional turmoil associated with divorce.

Legally, there are certain implications to relocating away from the current jurisdiction where the children ordinarily reside. Before moving you and the noncustodial parent can negotiate with the absence of a lawyer, a written agreement about the moce and any changes to visitation that may be needed. If you cannot reach an agreement about the move, you then must file an Application/Motion to the court to hear your matter and for a judge to make a decision before you move. Usually the court requires at least 30 days notice to the other parent of your court Application/Motion. It may take longer to reach an agreement with the other parent or get a court order. It is a good idea to give notice of 90 days before the move, as as soon as possible and to consult with a lawyer first. Upon receiving this notice, they can challenge your proposed change of residence or apply for a variation to the existing custody or access orders.

The leading case that sets out the legal test in determining mobility is Gordon vs. Goertz (1996) 2. S.C.R. 27

Similar to any other action involving variation of an existing custody order, the person challenging the relocation has to show that the move will result in a material change in circumstances affecting the child. Once this has been established, a judge will determine the best interests of the child in light of the relevant circumstances. These relevant circumstances include the existing custody and access relationship, the relationship between the child and the custodial parent, the views of the child, and the reason for the proposed change of residence among other circumstances. As with every other custody proceeding, the judges determination will turn on the best interests of the child. The judge’s inquiry is individualized and will involve all factors relevant to the case at hand.

Because mobility has become so easy in today’s society, often separation agreements or custody orders will address relocation and place specific restrictions on changing residences. Non-removal clauses that ban the extra-provincial removal of children without consent of the noncustodial parent. In these cases, the custodial parent who wishes to relocate will have to initiate the action by placing an application with the court.

If you are contemplating a move, you must consider the emotional needs of your child, as well as your former spouse’s right to challenge your relocation. Typically, courts only allow a custodial parent to relocate if the proposed move is in good faith and not intended to frustrate the noncustodial parent’s relationship with the child. Additionally, if a custodial parent relocates, they must be willing to accommodate the noncustodial parent’s access to the child; sometimes this means that the relocating parent will have to pay the additional costs of access.

In sum, if you are a custodial parent, moving isn’t as easy as just loading up the car and hitting the road – but it is still possible.

Yes, but they will need to establish paternity, especially if the father and the mother separate. Here are the ways to establish paternity as recognized by the court:

  • Act of birth
  • Presumption of paternity
  • Uninterrupted possession of status
  • Voluntary declaration

No. Even when the parents are unmarried, divorced, or separated, one parent cannot keep the child from seeing the other unless the court deems it appropriate to the child’s best interests.

Historically, mothers have been more likely to get sole custody of their child in both consent and contested orders, as they are usually the child’s primary caregiver. However, as more mothers also work outside the home, courts could also rule in favor of the father.

The majority of judges strive to make decisions that are in your children’s best interest. Giving full custody to one parent is usually the best option, except in cases with concerns such as child or substance abuse. This typically means keeping in contact with and maintaining relationships with both parents.
You should do everything possible to prepare for the subsequent child custody negotiations, whether you’re a parent seeking full custody or shared custody:
Be honest with yourself about your ability to manage things alone, in terms of practicality, finances, and other factors. You may get the result you want by presenting the strongest case for custody by doing the following:

  • Make a Strategy: If custody is granted, a court will expect you to be ready. Compile thoughtful replies to hypothetical queries posed in court.
  • Speak with people who have gone through the child custody procedure before you. They may provide you advice and tell you what to anticipate.
  • Judges look for proof of a meaningful relationship in addition to making sure you can provide a child’s practical and basic needs. Simply put, be involved in your children’s lives.
  • Continue to pay child support regularly, whether you’re asking the court for full or shared custody. When you start the procedure, you’ll want to make sure you have a strong track record.
  • Keep a detailed log of your visitation schedule. This is a crucial aspect of obtaining child custody. Visitation records reflect how often you see your children under the present arrangements and your dependability, as well as dedication to them.
  • During all child custody hearings, the court will inquire about acceptable living accommodations. Even if you live in a tiny apartment, you should create a unique and secure environment for your child.
  • Courts may determine child custody in part by how you treat your child’s other parent. Being hostile or unpleasant to the other parent makes collaborative decision-making more complicated and can break apart parent-child ties. As a result, judges are more inclined to favor the parent who isn’t behaving badly.
  • While parents typically spend a lot of time thinking about what they believe is best for their children, children’s perspectives are sometimes overlooked. The court will be interested in learning what the children desire and will most likely question them directly at some point throughout the proceedings. You can better inform your decision-making by asking your child what they think.

No. Parenting time and child support are different from each other. While it is a child’s right to be provided with financial support, it is also their right to spend time with their parents. Thus, even if the child support was cancelled the parent formerly supporting can still enjoy parenting time with the child.

“There is no fixed age for when a child can say which parent they want to live with after a divorce. However, by law, a child must be 16 years old to decide on this matter. The exception to this is when there is a court order stating that a child/ren must live with one parent until they turn 17 or 18.

Under certain circumstances, it is possible to legally prevent your child/ren’s father from seeing or contacting them. It may be necessary if he presents a potential danger to your child/ren. If you were never married to the father of your child and there is no court order saying otherwise, you can do anything you want until paternity is confirmed.

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